Elder-caregivers

Even if you have to unfold clean towels or something, that would give them something meaningful to do. We used to do all kinds of practical things with our patients...let them brush the dog, fold the clothes (some clothes they folded over and over just so we could give them something to do--you're helping their motor skills as well) sweep the floor, dust, polish their shoes, wash windows and mirrors, wash the car if you're outside, wipe the sink and countertops. They may not finish any of these tasks, or do them well, but they are great exercises and make them feel useful. I used to carry a doll with me to see some patients. I'd let them dress the doll and undress her. For the men, I'd give them nuts and bolts to work with, matching them, sorting them, fastening them. Sing old familiar songs with them. Some patients love old hymns. I hope you get many rewarding moments with these charges because I know you are working like never before. Good luck and may the Universe bless you.