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MIButterfly

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27. I'm friends with her sister and she hates him

Tue May 12, 2026, 12:14 PM

4 hrs ago

She absolutely refuses to have him in her house. She said if my best friend wants to being him down here, she can leave him in a parking lot for the weekend and go see him there.

Whenever my best friend comes down to visit, she stays with her sister and I go over there to see them but only when I'm invited, usually at Thanksgiving and Christmas. Sometimes she comes down and we don't get together at all because she has family obligations, which I completely understand.

Unfortunately my best friend won't listen to reason about that loser. A couple of Christmases ago, we tried to get through to her but she wasn't having it. She just kept saying "oh well."

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I've always gotten along with my friends' boyfriends and husbands [View all] MIButterfly Yesterday OP

I think that some people just react to flattery, and as we get older, who knows? usonian Yesterday #1

I had to part ways NJCher Yesterday #2

Sounds dangerous. I wish the best for her. live love laugh Yesterday #3

Thank you, live laugh love MIButterfly Yesterday #13

may I ask, how did these two meet? Skittles Yesterday #4

This is the most unbelievable part to me MIButterfly Yesterday #9

scary Skittles Yesterday #14

Sadly, her son passed away last year. He was only 37 MIButterfly Yesterday #15

oh my Skittles Yesterday #16

It's the age difference Figarosmom Yesterday #5

I don't know what she's enamored wirh MIButterfly Yesterday #10

yup. i had a brief fling w a much younger guy. mopinko Yesterday #17

Sorry to hear that. Haggard Celine Yesterday #6

Tell her how YOU feel... BurnDoubt Yesterday #8

I have told her how I feel and I only talked about him one time MIButterfly Yesterday #11

When she has her Epiphany... BurnDoubt Yesterday #21

Thank you so much, BurnDoubt MIButterfly Yesterday #25

Sorry to hear what this is putting you through, MIButterfly. calimary Yesterday #7

Thank you for your kind words, calimary MIButterfly Yesterday #12

some girls just like bad boys rampartd Yesterday #18

I've always wondered about that. It never made any kind of sense to me MIButterfly Yesterday #19

on the back of every harley is a woman who thought she could change him. rampartd Yesterday #20

And a jacket that sez: BurnDoubt Yesterday #22

for evolutionary reasons, i guess rampartd Yesterday #23

How about THAT! BurnDoubt Yesterday #24

You say she comes down to see her family. Could you try to see her then and maybe get to know the family. ratchiweenie 5 hrs ago #26

I'm friends with her sister and she hates him MIButterfly 4 hrs ago #27