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In reply to the discussion: Today Is My 23rd Sobriety Anniversary [View all]Clouds Passing
(6,691 posts)46. Thank you retiredwelder 😃 Your son
Do not give up on him! Keep trying different ways to connect with him. Tough love does not work, its a false solution. I understand your journey with him. The fear of losing him becomes overwhelming at times. The many many years of prayers for their healing make us feel like we are failing.
I could write a tome about my son.He was intelligent, creative, talented and loved people. He was also addicted to alcohol and drugs. He lost his life here on earth from a drug overdose. I feel terribly responsible, the guilt hits hard randomly. He tells me that this was his path. Even so I am always left with the thought that I could have done better, been more there for him, been more understanding, compassionate, forgiving, present. I do know that all my prayers and attempts to help him were not useless, he has passed his earthly test and is redeemed. Start to shift the way you see your son from a vision of damage to a vision of healed self.
Be those ways now. Peace, CP☁️☁️
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Thank you Duncanpup Your stories are an excellent way to stay connected to real life
Clouds Passing
12 hrs ago
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Thanks underpants. When I look back at those days, I'm grateful for clarity
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12 hrs ago
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Thank you sinkingfeeling 😁 Sobriety gives us the courage to deal with life's downs in healthy ways
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11 hrs ago
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Thanks WmChris 😊 I keep moving on in awokeness, not in a self induced daze
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11 hrs ago
#33
Thank you NNadir 😃 Every anniversary I become more grateful for that fateful decision
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11 hrs ago
#39
Thank you calimary 😃 The stability attained from the inner journey is like being slowly pulled into
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10 hrs ago
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Thank you mountain grammy 😀 I feel like I'm standing at the top of a mountain
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10 hrs ago
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Thanks LetMyPeopleVote 😃 The journey to healing the inner self is worth the ride
Clouds Passing
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