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debm55

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23. Oh, Ziggysmom. I am so sorry for you and your husband. May the memories of your dear husband be a blessing to you. Love,
Wed Feb 11, 2026, 10:30 AM
2 hrs ago

Deb. It was not your fault.

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I feel responsible [View all] Ziggysmom 12 hrs ago OP
honestly, I would get a lawyer Skittles 12 hrs ago #1
Yes, it always seems so sudden. Figarosmom 12 hrs ago #2
yes Skittles 12 hrs ago #4
You need all your energy for you right now. I'm sure no one will be offended... 3catwoman3 12 hrs ago #3
I hope that you can be at peace. essaynnc 12 hrs ago #5
This is not your fault Bayard 11 hrs ago #6
I am so very sorry Ziggysmom, JMCKUSICK 11 hrs ago #7
My deepest condolences, Ziggysmom. HeartsCanHope 11 hrs ago #8
I wish we could all hug you, literally. Not just with words. calimary 11 hrs ago #9
It's hard not to feel guilty when you lose a loved one who depended are your care and judgement. Ilikepurple 11 hrs ago #10
I am so sorry. It is not your fault. You did what should have been best for him; LoisB 11 hrs ago #11
You are in our prayers RainCaster 11 hrs ago #12
Ziggysmom, you are not responsible. Prairie_Seagull 11 hrs ago #13
Holding you in love and light. Remember that your DU family is here niyad 11 hrs ago #14
My heart goes out to you stage left 10 hrs ago #15
Do not blame yourself, you did everything you could. Grumpy Old Guy 10 hrs ago #16
i'm so sorry this happened. orleans 9 hrs ago #17
Please allow yourself some grace. 10 Turtle Day 7 hrs ago #18
Sending you light and love Ziggysmom. mnhtnbb 6 hrs ago #19
You did what you could with what was available. OldBaldy1701E 5 hrs ago #20
🕯💙🌷 quaint 2 hrs ago #21
I am so sorry. Solly Mack 2 hrs ago #22
Oh, Ziggysmom. I am so sorry for you and your husband. May the memories of your dear husband be a blessing to you. Love, debm55 2 hrs ago #23
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