Welcome to DU! The truly grassroots left-of-center political community where regular people, not algorithms, drive the discussions and set the standards. Join the community: Create a free account Support DU (and get rid of ads!): Become a Star Member Latest Breaking News Editorials & Other Articles General Discussion The DU Lounge All Forums Issue Forums Culture Forums Alliance Forums Region Forums Support Forums Help & Search

The DU Lounge

RainCaster

(13,479 posts)

12. You are in our prayers

Reply to Ziggysmom (Original post)

Wed Feb 11, 2026, 01:43 AM

23 hrs ago

You are not alone.

Click here to purchase valentine hearts!

Edit history

Please sign in to view edit histories.

Recommendations

1 members have recommended this reply (displayed in chronological order):

niyad

32 replies

= new reply since forum marked as read

Highlight:

I feel responsible [View all] Ziggysmom Yesterday OP

honestly, I would get a lawyer Skittles Yesterday #1

Yes, it always seems so sudden. Figarosmom Yesterday #2

yes Skittles 23 hrs ago #4

You need all your energy for you right now. I'm sure no one will be offended... 3catwoman3 Yesterday #3

I hope that you can be at peace. essaynnc 23 hrs ago #5

This is not your fault Bayard 23 hrs ago #6

I am so very sorry Ziggysmom, JMCKUSICK 23 hrs ago #7

My deepest condolences, Ziggysmom. HeartsCanHope 23 hrs ago #8

I wish we could all hug you, literally. Not just with words. calimary 23 hrs ago #9

It's hard not to feel guilty when you lose a loved one who depended are your care and judgement. Ilikepurple 23 hrs ago #10

I am so sorry. It is not your fault. You did what should have been best for him; LoisB 23 hrs ago #11

You are in our prayers RainCaster 23 hrs ago #12

Ziggysmom, you are not responsible. Prairie_Seagull 23 hrs ago #13

Holding you in love and light. Remember that your DU family is here niyad 22 hrs ago #14

My heart goes out to you stage left 22 hrs ago #15

Do not blame yourself, you did everything you could. Grumpy Old Guy 22 hrs ago #16

i'm so sorry this happened. orleans 21 hrs ago #17

Please allow yourself some grace. 10 Turtle Day 19 hrs ago #18

Sending you light and love Ziggysmom. mnhtnbb 18 hrs ago #19

You did what you could with what was available. OldBaldy1701E 16 hrs ago #20

🕯💙🌷 quaint 14 hrs ago #21

I am so sorry. Solly Mack 14 hrs ago #22

Oh, Ziggysmom. I am so sorry for you and your husband. May the memories of your dear husband be a blessing to you. Love, debm55 14 hrs ago #23

Please say to yourself some_of_us_are_sane 9 hrs ago #24

I thought I rsponded to you soon after you posted...but maybe it stayed in Preview and not posted... electric_blue68 4 hrs ago #25

I am very sorry. I cannot change how you feel about your role, but in my opinion you did everything I would have done. NNadir 4 hrs ago #26

Yu did right SuzyandPuffpuff 4 hrs ago #27

My deepest sympathy. Yes, see an attorney. sinkingfeeling 4 hrs ago #28

Peace. cachukis 4 hrs ago #29

You did nothing wrong Alice Kramden 4 hrs ago #30

Most nursing homes are drastically underfunded PoindexterOglethorpe 1 hr ago #31

Memory care units are supposed to have more attentive care, not less, so please don't blame yourself. JudyM 28 min ago #32