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In reply to the discussion: I feel responsible [View all]

calimary

(89,333 posts)
9. I wish we could all hug you, literally. Not just with words.
Wed Feb 11, 2026, 01:28 AM
17 hrs ago

It sounds like you did all and everything you could for him.

And whenever it is that you might read this, just know that we care about you and are thinking about you A LOT as you go through such a jarring time.

I know prayers are being said, and sent your way. And as I’ve had the pleasure and gratitude of discovering, you’re not alone when you’re part of DU. Someone’s always here, and there’ll always be someone thinking about you and him as well.

Here’s a hug:
(((((((((( * ))))))))))

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I feel responsible [View all] Ziggysmom 18 hrs ago OP
honestly, I would get a lawyer Skittles 18 hrs ago #1
Yes, it always seems so sudden. Figarosmom 18 hrs ago #2
yes Skittles 18 hrs ago #4
You need all your energy for you right now. I'm sure no one will be offended... 3catwoman3 18 hrs ago #3
I hope that you can be at peace. essaynnc 18 hrs ago #5
This is not your fault Bayard 18 hrs ago #6
I am so very sorry Ziggysmom, JMCKUSICK 17 hrs ago #7
My deepest condolences, Ziggysmom. HeartsCanHope 17 hrs ago #8
I wish we could all hug you, literally. Not just with words. calimary 17 hrs ago #9
It's hard not to feel guilty when you lose a loved one who depended are your care and judgement. Ilikepurple 17 hrs ago #10
I am so sorry. It is not your fault. You did what should have been best for him; LoisB 17 hrs ago #11
You are in our prayers RainCaster 17 hrs ago #12
Ziggysmom, you are not responsible. Prairie_Seagull 17 hrs ago #13
Holding you in love and light. Remember that your DU family is here niyad 17 hrs ago #14
My heart goes out to you stage left 17 hrs ago #15
Do not blame yourself, you did everything you could. Grumpy Old Guy 16 hrs ago #16
i'm so sorry this happened. orleans 15 hrs ago #17
Please allow yourself some grace. 10 Turtle Day 13 hrs ago #18
Sending you light and love Ziggysmom. mnhtnbb 12 hrs ago #19
You did what you could with what was available. OldBaldy1701E 11 hrs ago #20
🕯💙🌷 quaint 9 hrs ago #21
I am so sorry. Solly Mack 9 hrs ago #22
Oh, Ziggysmom. I am so sorry for you and your husband. May the memories of your dear husband be a blessing to you. Love, debm55 8 hrs ago #23
Please say to yourself some_of_us_are_sane 4 hrs ago #24
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