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1. honestly, I would get a lawyer

Wed Feb 11, 2026, 12:35 AM

20 hrs ago

this is NOT your fault, that nursing home needs to be held accountable, WTF

very sorry you are having to deal with this

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I feel responsible [View all] Ziggysmom 20 hrs ago OP

honestly, I would get a lawyer Skittles 20 hrs ago #1

Yes, it always seems so sudden. Figarosmom 20 hrs ago #2

yes Skittles 20 hrs ago #4

I hope that you can be at peace. essaynnc 20 hrs ago #5

This is not your fault Bayard 19 hrs ago #6

I am so very sorry Ziggysmom, JMCKUSICK 19 hrs ago #7

My deepest condolences, Ziggysmom. HeartsCanHope 19 hrs ago #8

I wish we could all hug you, literally. Not just with words. calimary 19 hrs ago #9

You are in our prayers RainCaster 19 hrs ago #12

Ziggysmom, you are not responsible. Prairie_Seagull 19 hrs ago #13

Holding you in love and light. Remember that your DU family is here niyad 19 hrs ago #14

My heart goes out to you stage left 18 hrs ago #15

Do not blame yourself, you did everything you could. Grumpy Old Guy 18 hrs ago #16

i'm so sorry this happened. orleans 17 hrs ago #17

Please allow yourself some grace. 10 Turtle Day 15 hrs ago #18

Sending you light and love Ziggysmom. mnhtnbb 14 hrs ago #19

You did what you could with what was available. OldBaldy1701E 13 hrs ago #20

🕯💙🌷 quaint 10 hrs ago #21

I am so sorry. Solly Mack 10 hrs ago #22

Please say to yourself some_of_us_are_sane 6 hrs ago #24

Yu did right SuzyandPuffpuff 1 hr ago #27

My deepest sympathy. Yes, see an attorney. sinkingfeeling 1 hr ago #28

Peace. cachukis 56 min ago #29

You did nothing wrong Alice Kramden 56 min ago #30