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Easterncedar

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14. Oh yeah. Drives me mad. No one donates. Gave and given are vanishing
Sat May 23, 2026, 11:19 PM
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Is it that irregular verbs confuse people?

I have come to accept that people can't keep affect and effect straight, so no one is affected, we are impacted instead, which always sounds quite uncomfortable to me.

We have forever lost the distinction between jealous and envious, and, heaven help us, the difference between disinterested and uninterested, which seems like a sad loss of a valuable concept. As they say, you better hope you get a disinterested judge in your trial, not an uninterested one.

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Twitter brain... SheltieLover Saturday #1
Hmm I remember Bush always said just "nuclear" choie Saturday #3
120 char communications destroy neural networks SheltieLover Saturday #5
Curiously, Jimmy Carter, a U.S. Navy nuclear engineer pronounced it the same way Brother Buzz Saturday #6
Another one The Blue Flower Saturday #2
YES!!! choie Saturday #4
And "Oval" instead of "Oval Office." wnylib Saturday #15
Cyber works really well as a noun LearnedHand Saturday #20
As in "Baron knows the cyber" Disaffected Yesterday #22
People no longer canetoad Saturday #7
Lord, that's right! choie Saturday #8
Oh yeah. Drives me mad. No one donates. Gave and given are vanishing Easterncedar Saturday #14
Gifting or gifting grinds my gears nt róisín_dubh Yesterday #25
Mine too canetoad Yesterday #27
Like you said, it's grammar. I've had some experiance in the South and noticed a long time ago that folks shortened..... FadedMullet Saturday #9
Yep, that's one! Easterncedar Saturday #13
Very common in Appalachia róisín_dubh Yesterday #26
Kinda drove me a little crazy too. FadedMullet 2 hrs ago #41
Agree With You :: I Do (!) wyn borkins Saturday #10
Thanks wyn! choie Saturday #11
Yes, it seems to be an accelerating trend Easterncedar Saturday #12
You want to go with? radical noodle Saturday #16
I noticed that while watching the Darral Brooks trial. I thought it was a Wisconsin LoisB Saturday #18
It's also an Illinois thing. 3catwoman3 Yesterday #31
I think it's started in the last few years and not just in Wisconsin radical noodle 19 hrs ago #36
This isn't new. It's a function of how English is spoken by people in areas where there were a lot of settlers who spoke WhiskeyGrinder 21 hrs ago #35
Really? radical noodle 19 hrs ago #37
Language spreads. WhiskeyGrinder 18 hrs ago #40
Interesting. LoisB 18 hrs ago #39
I agree. You are not being intolerant. It seems as if everything is shorthand LoisB Saturday #17
Language is very fluid and fast moving LearnedHand Saturday #19
This! Sometimes I love playing with language and B.See Yesterday #30
Oh dear - language changes. How painful. nt GenThePerservering Saturday #21
And ya, like I mean, your know, Disaffected Yesterday #23
One reason I enjoy listening to BBC World Service and Al Jazeera Disaffected Yesterday #24
I've noticed that, too. calimary Yesterday #28
I've actually come to enjoy many of the shortenings mentioned here EverHopeful Yesterday #29
I detest impactful. Clunky and awkward. 3catwoman3 Yesterday #32
"Impactful" is not very graceful but "influential" is definitely not a substitute LearnedHand 19 hrs ago #38
Leaving important words out leads sdfernando Yesterday #33
The worst, to me, is calling a conspiracy theory a conspiracy. That's become all too common. n/t Mister Ed Yesterday #34
Recommended. H2O Man 1 hr ago #42
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