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218. She was always at risk of him strangling her. Taller/ heavier

Sat Feb 14, 2026, 01:51 PM

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She had to lay him out or retaliation could have been fatal for her. From the looks she has had solid self defense instruction. This would not have been the outcome for many women / girls.

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A man was harassing a woman in the elevator. See what she did.♥️ [View all] riversedge Friday OP

Good on her! 3catwoman3 Friday #1

Think? BidenRocks Friday #52

Sadly true. niyad Friday #96

Well, yes, there is that. 3catwoman3 Friday #97

It's all bdamomma Friday #165

life can be challenging when you think with your dick. and so many of them do nt orleans Friday #167

I had a biology professor in college that said something like that. WinstonSmith4740 Yesterday #190

She beat the crap out of him !!!!!!! Yahooooo Trueblue1968 Yesterday #191

Good LetMyPeopleVote Friday #2

Sorry, but from a legal standpoint, that's got to be excessive use of force. PeaceWave Friday #3

Nah...and he won't report it anyhow. MineralMan Friday #7

He was immobilized after the kick to his crotch. The knee to his head was overkill. PeaceWave Friday #9

How was she to know that? I would have been scared to death that he would attack again in that closed space. AnotherMother4Peace Friday #15

He never raised his head again after the kick to the crotch. He clearly was no longer a threat. PeaceWave Friday #32

What leads you to assert a momentarily lowered head removes all threat? Torchlight Friday #34

Are you really going to ask a sexual assault victim BidenRocks Friday #60

I included an excerpt from the post I responded to Torchlight Friday #61

Perhaps quotation marks might have avoided confusion. I knew niyad Friday #92

Bet you that those who are trying to give the assaulter protection are not female. efhmc Friday #102

Definitely. MorbidButterflyTat Friday #115

You underestimate the danger she was in ninjanurse Friday #133

Now is that clearly no longer a threat in your eyes or hers? usedtobedemgurl Yesterday #214

Same as emptying a magazine RoseTrellis Yesterday #205

Shooting someone is a bit more damaging than a groin kick Attilatheblond Yesterday #207

Don't think he'll be pressing charges, but if he does, my money is on her. Joinfortmill Friday #17

Maybe a little overkill is what he needed. GaYellowDawg Friday #18

IMO if she stopped short of debilitating him until the doors opened, this story would have a different ending. Hope22 Yesterday #220

I am guessing that it must be difficult to be a woman within your circle of niyad Friday #27

Absolutely! SheltieLover Friday #49

What would Krusty Gnome have done?? BattleRow Friday #66

Pulled out her gun? niyad Friday #98

What man would touch Kristie Gnome? maxrandb Friday #124

Well, there is at least one. Wednesdays Friday #131

We can't count her plastic surgeon. :-) nt spooky3 Friday #175

By all reports: Corey Lewandowski ShazzieB Yesterday #179

I hear she has had him pegged from the very beginning. MineralMan Yesterday #223

Nominated for best reply of the century. Maybe Ilsa Friday #71

I am deeply honoured, thank you. My first reaction was unprintable. niyad Friday #87

+1 leftstreet Friday #108

+2 Permanut Friday #118

Great response niyad Brenda Friday #138

Thank you. It took a bit to write calmly! niyad Friday #140

It's been sad to see apologists here for decades. Brenda Friday #142

I am absolutely not surprised, coming from that one Skittles Yesterday #181

So disappointingly true. niyad Yesterday #185

Bravo! BlueSpot Yesterday #182

Thank you. niyad Yesterday #186

The Asshole was groping a woman in an elevator. MineralMan Friday #69

I agree liberalgunwilltravel Friday #95

Some people respond as if it's not the real world people live in. MineralMan Friday #101

Thank you for mentioning training in self defense oberle Friday #169

She made it quite clear after the 1st kacekwl Friday #80

Nobody is immobilized by one woman's kick to the groin synni Friday #88

No it wasn't and her defense was exactly as women are trained to do when being assaulted ms liberty Friday #120

Not from my viewpoint Sanity Claws Friday #10

The legal standard for self-defense allows individuals to use "reasonable, proportional force." PeaceWave Friday #14

You wholly ignore 'Reasonable Fear' Torchlight Friday #20

The fact that she was trapped & couldn't escape changed the situation, IMO. CrispyQ Friday #29

....... bluestarone Friday #38

And she reasoned that he needed a little more reason not to re-attack. MineralMan Friday #74

Your concern for the sexual predator is noted. chia Friday #119

if a guy touches me uninvited Skittles Yesterday #183

Sorry, he had ample opportunity to act in an adult and civil manner Torchlight Friday #11

He put hands on her mcar Friday #22

He wasn't going to stop The Blue Flower Friday #26

That's right mcar Friday #160

He put his hands on her TWICE Seinan Sensei Friday #45

She had every reason to believe he wouldn't stop mcar Friday #161

Is there a legal limit on beating a potential rapist to the floor? I saw no blood, body parts were still attached irisblue Friday #23

Even if in a place with a "duty to flee" IbogaProject Friday #25

Not excessive at all Soul_of_Wit Friday #30

If that was done to my Daughter or my Wife Seinan Sensei Friday #50

Nope. She's got it on video. He was warned. thought crime Friday #33

LOL don't you ever watch scary movies? leftstreet Friday #40

Yeah. You're right. Too bad she wasn't wearing a stiletto, right? PeaceWave Friday #43

Sorry. Your post is just so tone deaf leftstreet Friday #48

Self-defense, not aggression. niyad Friday #51

This is the problem. Self defense isn't a free pass for unlimited aggression. PeaceWave Friday #57

What then is the precise point at which defense ends and aggression begins? Torchlight Friday #59

see post 27 niyad Friday #82

It's not a free pass for anything. Aristus Friday #93

Unlimited aggression? MontanaMama Friday #99

The problem is MorbidButterflyTat Friday #117

Unlimited aggression would have been empting a full magazine on his self entitled ass. Attilatheblond Yesterday #212

Ah, correct! leftstreet Friday #58

And I am so FUCKING PISSED at the misogynistic, patriarchal BS niyad Friday #109

Misogyny is Patriarchy's oxygen leftstreet Friday #110

Absolutely! SheltieLover Friday #67

Stiletto to the eyes face would be an effective response. irisblue Friday #84

There was a reason I used to wear 4-inch heels when I was in public. niyad Friday #125

Stick him with a Hat Pin! BidenRocks Friday #152

Very true. I don't wear hats, since my sunglasses are usually there if I niyad Friday #156

Somehow I think that kick to the balls Hope22 Yesterday #208

There isn't a jury on this planet that would convict her. cloudbase Friday #42

He was lucky she didn't pull out a pistol. Nt spooky3 Friday #70

Sadly, you are overly optimistic about juries. I have seen too many niyad Friday #126

Indeed. Some of the posts beggar belief. cloudbase Friday #127

Sadly true! niyad Friday #129

It absolutely is not obamanut2012 Friday #53

If she were a man... Dear_Prudence Friday #54

Killing him would have been excessive use of force Random Boomer Friday #56

And I hope she reported him to the police. Nt spooky3 Friday #72

He assaulted her, she moved away, he assaulted her again Justice Yesterday #192

He put his hands on her. She had no idea what was next. Irish_Dem Friday #62

What legal standpoint? fujiyamasan Friday #65

Thank you for pointing that out. niyad Friday #128

Not a problem fujiyamasan Friday #145

I heard that some Japanese rail lines BidenRocks Friday #157

While that is helpful to a degree, it does not address the problem niyad Yesterday #197

This would be a good training video ! thought crime Friday #171

She was trapped in a box with a man who assaulted her. LuckyCharms Friday #68

"If she had killed him for it, she would have been justified." - Sorry, but no, she would not have been justified. PeaceWave Friday #75

You're very wrong. LuckyCharms Friday #77

No. I'm right and no amount of being upset at me (for raising the point) or the legal system (for being what it is)... PeaceWave Friday #86

I think you're confusing rejections of your assertions with "being upset" Torchlight Friday #90

Snicker Brenda Friday #139

Oh, I'm not upset at all. LuckyCharms Friday #100

She turned and pushed a button BidenRocks Friday #158

See post 27. Keep digging that hole, dear heart. It is such a good look for you. niyad Friday #130

Damn straight niyad. MontanaMama Yesterday #213

I am angry, and disgusted. niyad Yesterday #215

As we should be. MontanaMama Yesterday #216

EXACTLY!!! niyad Yesterday #221

If you are in that situation, you have every reason to believe someone is going to try and rape you. FascismIsDeath Yesterday #189

She was always at risk of him strangling her. Taller/ heavier Hope22 Yesterday #218

"Excessive" would have been another two or three kicks to his nuts. GoCubsGo Friday #76

Nope. MontanaMama Friday #91

+1 for the blame comment. - nt CrispyQ Friday #159

She should've shouted "but the DOW is over fifty thousand" Shambala Friday #114

Snicker niyad Friday #132

Public Service Notice ninjanurse Friday #134

Not sure about this because she would surely have been in fear of her life. He assaulted her by PatrickforB Friday #154

Well, if that had gone to trial and she was in the dock on assault charges, and I were on the jury... Jedi Guy Friday #178

I don't think so. A man is bigger and stronger than a woman, so she would be justified in fearing that if she didn't tblue37 Yesterday #184

A women who was assaulted in a confined space she cannot readily retreat from can/should use all the force she can Attilatheblond Yesterday #206

Golly, maybe if he had smiled more she wouldn't have felt the need to fiercely defend herself until she could escape Attilatheblond Yesterday #210

Really? She was still stuck in there with him LearnedHand 23 hrs ago #227

Hope she left some lasting damage dalton99a Friday #4

And That's How You Do It! MineralMan Friday #5

She really dealt with that assaulter but hope she also called security and police to protect other less capable women. MLAA Friday #6

The fact that we are seeing the video... Soul_of_Wit Friday #36

I'm pretty sure a lot of elevators have security cameras in them. MineralMan Friday #78

I assumed it was security video Soul_of_Wit Yesterday #209

Yes. They only look at them if there is an incident. MineralMan Yesterday #211

That was the perfect place to put my last heart. 1WorldHope Friday #8

K&R! Torchlight Friday #12

Good for her! SheltieLover Friday #13

Whoa, don't know if this is real, but I'm gonna use her moves! Joinfortmill Friday #16

He (and Trump) need a dictionary that explain what "No!" means. Ping Tung Friday #19

From 2016, apparently woman is a Beijing TV host and actress. betsuni Friday #21

Thank you for this. I thought it looked a bit familiar. Still relevant. niyad Friday #135

My first thought was AI slop. Thanks for the post. Monsieur_Grumpe Yesterday #196

I wish more women/girls had more situational awareness. irisblue Friday #24

A friend asked me once why I do not use headphones when I am niyad Friday #39

Holy shit that was pretty badass! fujiyamasan Friday #28

Bravo! You go, girl! Vinca Friday #31

BRAVA!!! niyad Friday #37

I do not know whether this was staged (as I remember a similar video niyad Friday #35

Excessive force, Maj. Dude Friday #41

Well done! UpInArms Friday #44

This seems staged. However, IF this video teaches or inspires a woman to: flvegan Friday #46

What more do we know about this? I think it looks like... QueerDuck Friday #47

There is a (possibly apocryphal) story from many years ago in the London tube dickthegrouch Friday #55

She was in danger with no ability to flee until the door opened Ritabert Friday #63

And THAT, my dears, is how it is DONE!!!!! hamsterjill Friday #64

I celebrate her quick reactions--and good aim! hlthe2b Friday #73

Good for her. He has no business putting hands on her. She did excellent. Don't minimize. Srkdqltr Friday #79

Possibly fake video Tasmanian Devil Friday #81

Nope. That is a camera mounted in the ceiling of the elevator car. MineralMan Friday #104

well, i guess i could smile at the camera next time i'm in an elevator -- but i don't think it'll show up very good orleans Friday #168

Looks fake to me. There's a lot of this stuff getting posted in the "reels" Liberal In Texas Friday #107

So.... MorbidButterflyTat Friday #113

LOL! ShazzieB Yesterday #180

This message was self-deleted by its author PeaceWave Friday #116

Wut? Brenda Friday #147

And the only rec for this post calling it AI slop is Brenda Friday #143

Please ... Tasmanian Devil Friday #153

This looks so fake Chicagogrl1 Friday #83

It's fake. They're both amateur actors. Made to be click-bait and passed all over social media. Liberal In Texas Friday #149

Fake or not, if only something like that had happened to a convicted 34-count... the nelm Friday #170

Staged or not, it shows women a course of action in such a situation. niyad Yesterday #225

The "well actually" crowd is in the building mcar 22 hrs ago #228

Yes, but this is about women protecting themselves. The very idea niyad 21 hrs ago #229

Yes, they have to be totally aware of what they are doing mcar 20 hrs ago #230

ggrrrrrrr niyad 19 hrs ago #231

I can't believe that the guy thought that would work. mjvpi Friday #85

He got what's coming to him. bluescribbler Friday #89

She did a fine job. Swede Friday #94

should have kicked him once more when he was down moonshinegnomie Friday #103

It looks rehearsed. Omnipresent Friday #105

"She allowed him...." MorbidButterflyTat Friday #111

I never suggested she put herself in a corner. Omnipresent Yesterday #194

And if he came at her again when her back was against the wall, she could have been trapped. ShazzieB Friday #151

My point is that most people want to see who is lurking around behind them. Omnipresent Yesterday #193

Convince me this isn't staged misanthrope Friday #106

Staged or scripted Tasmanian Devil Friday #112

I don't care if it's staged or not. Dem_in_Nebr. Friday #121

Yeah, even if it was staged or faked, I think it was informative. ShazzieB Yesterday #187

And THAT is how it's done. Javaman Friday #122

If i am alone on an elevator and a MineralMan Friday #123

Used to be a tip of the Fedora. BidenRocks Friday #173

Well, don't expect a tip of the MAGA cap. MineralMan Yesterday #200

I've watched the video a couple of times and IMO no jury would convict her LogDog75 Friday #136

FAFO Timewas Friday #137

I also agree that no jury would convict her. HeartsCanHope Friday #141

She was in an enclosed space with someone making unwanted advances, with no way to know how far he was going DFW Friday #146

Right on. Tactical Peek Friday #144

Not been Rebl2 Friday #148

Same here. And I did not get on an elevator if there was a lone man there. niyad Friday #150

Think back to 2016 canetoad Friday #155

That's about how old this staged video is. Hassin Bin Sober Friday #162

Really? canetoad Friday #163

I'll have to remember that move! ShazzieB Yesterday #188

Can you just imagine the hysteria had she done so? niyad Yesterday #217

Women bdamomma Friday #164

And boy will it be tough in our new burkas! Nt Hope22 Yesterday #219

Unless bdamomma Yesterday #224

I look good in red.. Hope22 23 hrs ago #226

If real, she did exactly the right thing. chowmama Friday #166

'Bought 9-10 years ago, my husband broke up a dude from hitting the dude's girlfriend. chouchou Friday #172

She should have nailed him even more. Make him a eunuch. BigmanPigman Friday #174

Good for her! ABC123Easy Friday #176

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excellent job. pansypoo53219 Yesterday #195

Busting his nuts! Smart move. ProudMNDemocrat Yesterday #198

Violence is good as long as we agree with the outcome AZLD4Candidate Yesterday #199

Good for Her!! She walloped an Epstein Jr. !! It appears she is trained blue-wave Yesterday #201

ouch... myohmy2 Yesterday #202

Just make sure you hurt them bad enough they can't follow you. Linda ladeewolf Yesterday #203

That looked super choreographed LoveSucky Yesterday #204

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