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97. Well, yes, there is that.

Fri Feb 13, 2026, 02:42 PM

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I sometimes wonder if there was not some behavioral control gene that was on the part of the Y chromosome that looks like it broke off and that why the chromosome is smaller. The male of the species seems, generally speaking, to get into so much more trouble than women.

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A man was harassing a woman in the elevator. See what she did.♥️ [View all] riversedge Yesterday OP

Good on her! 3catwoman3 Yesterday #1

Think? BidenRocks 23 hrs ago #52

Sadly true. niyad 22 hrs ago #96

Well, yes, there is that. 3catwoman3 22 hrs ago #97

It's all bdamomma 16 hrs ago #165

life can be challenging when you think with your dick. and so many of them do nt orleans 16 hrs ago #167

I had a biology professor in college that said something like that. WinstonSmith4740 11 hrs ago #190

She beat the crap out of him !!!!!!! Yahooooo Trueblue1968 9 hrs ago #191

Good LetMyPeopleVote Yesterday #2

Sorry, but from a legal standpoint, that's got to be excessive use of force. PeaceWave Yesterday #3

Nah...and he won't report it anyhow. MineralMan Yesterday #7

He was immobilized after the kick to his crotch. The knee to his head was overkill. PeaceWave Yesterday #9

How was she to know that? I would have been scared to death that he would attack again in that closed space. AnotherMother4Peace Yesterday #15

He never raised his head again after the kick to the crotch. He clearly was no longer a threat. PeaceWave Yesterday #32

What leads you to assert a momentarily lowered head removes all threat? Torchlight Yesterday #34

Are you really going to ask a sexual assault victim BidenRocks 23 hrs ago #60

I included an excerpt from the post I responded to Torchlight 23 hrs ago #61

Perhaps quotation marks might have avoided confusion. I knew niyad 22 hrs ago #92

Bet you that those who are trying to give the assaulter protection are not female. efhmc 22 hrs ago #102

Definitely. MorbidButterflyTat 21 hrs ago #115

You underestimate the danger she was in ninjanurse 20 hrs ago #133

Now is that clearly no longer a threat in your eyes or hers? usedtobedemgurl 33 min ago #214

Same as emptying a magazine RoseTrellis 1 hr ago #205

Shooting someone is a bit more damaging than a groin kick Attilatheblond 1 hr ago #207

Don't think he'll be pressing charges, but if he does, my money is on her. Joinfortmill Yesterday #17

Maybe a little overkill is what he needed. GaYellowDawg Yesterday #18

I am guessing that it must be difficult to be a woman within your circle of niyad Yesterday #27

Absolutely! SheltieLover 23 hrs ago #49

What would Krusty Gnome have done?? BattleRow 23 hrs ago #66

Pulled out her gun? niyad 22 hrs ago #98

What man would touch Kristie Gnome? maxrandb 20 hrs ago #124

Well, there is at least one. Wednesdays 20 hrs ago #131

We can't count her plastic surgeon. :-) nt spooky3 15 hrs ago #175

By all reports: Corey Lewandowski ShazzieB 13 hrs ago #179

Nominated for best reply of the century. Maybe Ilsa 23 hrs ago #71

I am deeply honoured, thank you. My first reaction was unprintable. niyad 22 hrs ago #87

+1 leftstreet 22 hrs ago #108

+2 Permanut 21 hrs ago #118

Great response niyad Brenda 19 hrs ago #138

Thank you. It took a bit to write calmly! niyad 19 hrs ago #140

It's been sad to see apologists here for decades. Brenda 19 hrs ago #142

I am absolutely not surprised, coming from that one Skittles 12 hrs ago #181

So disappointingly true. niyad 12 hrs ago #185

Bravo! BlueSpot 12 hrs ago #182

Thank you. niyad 12 hrs ago #186

The Asshole was groping a woman in an elevator. MineralMan 23 hrs ago #69

I agree liberalgunwilltravel 22 hrs ago #95

Some people respond as if it's not the real world people live in. MineralMan 22 hrs ago #101

Thank you for mentioning training in self defense oberle 16 hrs ago #169

She made it quite clear after the 1st kacekwl 23 hrs ago #80

Nobody is immobilized by one woman's kick to the groin synni 22 hrs ago #88

No it wasn't and her defense was exactly as women are trained to do when being assaulted ms liberty 21 hrs ago #120

Not from my viewpoint Sanity Claws Yesterday #10

The legal standard for self-defense allows individuals to use "reasonable, proportional force." PeaceWave Yesterday #14

You wholly ignore 'Reasonable Fear' Torchlight Yesterday #20

The fact that she was trapped & couldn't escape changed the situation, IMO. CrispyQ Yesterday #29

....... bluestarone Yesterday #38

And she reasoned that he needed a little more reason not to re-attack. MineralMan 23 hrs ago #74

Your concern for the sexual predator is noted. chia 21 hrs ago #119

if a guy touches me uninvited Skittles 12 hrs ago #183

Sorry, he had ample opportunity to act in an adult and civil manner Torchlight Yesterday #11

He put hands on her mcar Yesterday #22

He wasn't going to stop The Blue Flower Yesterday #26

That's right mcar 17 hrs ago #160

He put his hands on her TWICE Seinan Sensei 23 hrs ago #45

She had every reason to believe he wouldn't stop mcar 17 hrs ago #161

Is there a legal limit on beating a potential rapist to the floor? I saw no blood, body parts were still attached irisblue Yesterday #23

Even if in a place with a "duty to flee" IbogaProject Yesterday #25

Not excessive at all Soul_of_Wit Yesterday #30

If that was done to my Daughter or my Wife Seinan Sensei 23 hrs ago #50

Nope. She's got it on video. He was warned. thought crime Yesterday #33

LOL don't you ever watch scary movies? leftstreet Yesterday #40

Yeah. You're right. Too bad she wasn't wearing a stiletto, right? PeaceWave Yesterday #43

Sorry. Your post is just so tone deaf leftstreet 23 hrs ago #48

Self-defense, not aggression. niyad 23 hrs ago #51

This is the problem. Self defense isn't a free pass for unlimited aggression. PeaceWave 23 hrs ago #57

What then is the precise point at which defense ends and aggression begins? Torchlight 23 hrs ago #59

see post 27 niyad 22 hrs ago #82

It's not a free pass for anything. Aristus 22 hrs ago #93

Unlimited aggression? MontanaMama 22 hrs ago #99

The problem is MorbidButterflyTat 21 hrs ago #117

Unlimited aggression would have been empting a full magazine on his self entitled ass. Attilatheblond 44 min ago #212

Ah, correct! leftstreet 23 hrs ago #58

And I am so FUCKING PISSED at the misogynistic, patriarchal BS niyad 22 hrs ago #109

Misogyny is Patriarchy's oxygen leftstreet 22 hrs ago #110

Absolutely! SheltieLover 23 hrs ago #67

Stiletto to the eyes face would be an effective response. irisblue 22 hrs ago #84

There was a reason I used to wear 4-inch heels when I was in public. niyad 20 hrs ago #125

Stick him with a Hat Pin! BidenRocks 17 hrs ago #152

Very true. I don't wear hats, since my sunglasses are usually there if I niyad 17 hrs ago #156

Somehow I think that kick to the balls Hope22 1 hr ago #208

There isn't a jury on this planet that would convict her. cloudbase Yesterday #42

He was lucky she didn't pull out a pistol. Nt spooky3 23 hrs ago #70

Sadly, you are overly optimistic about juries. I have seen too many niyad 20 hrs ago #126

Indeed. Some of the posts beggar belief. cloudbase 20 hrs ago #127

Sadly true! niyad 20 hrs ago #129

It absolutely is not obamanut2012 23 hrs ago #53

If she were a man... Dear_Prudence 23 hrs ago #54

Killing him would have been excessive use of force Random Boomer 23 hrs ago #56

And I hope she reported him to the police. Nt spooky3 23 hrs ago #72

He assaulted her, she moved away, he assaulted her again Justice 9 hrs ago #192

He put his hands on her. She had no idea what was next. Irish_Dem 23 hrs ago #62

What legal standpoint? fujiyamasan 23 hrs ago #65

Thank you for pointing that out. niyad 20 hrs ago #128

Not a problem fujiyamasan 19 hrs ago #145

I heard that some Japanese rail lines BidenRocks 17 hrs ago #157

While that is helpful to a degree, it does not address the problem niyad 4 hrs ago #197

This would be a good training video ! thought crime 15 hrs ago #171

She was trapped in a box with a man who assaulted her. LuckyCharms 23 hrs ago #68

"If she had killed him for it, she would have been justified." - Sorry, but no, she would not have been justified. PeaceWave 23 hrs ago #75

You're very wrong. LuckyCharms 23 hrs ago #77

No. I'm right and no amount of being upset at me (for raising the point) or the legal system (for being what it is)... PeaceWave 22 hrs ago #86

I think you're confusing rejections of your assertions with "being upset" Torchlight 22 hrs ago #90

Snicker Brenda 19 hrs ago #139

Oh, I'm not upset at all. LuckyCharms 22 hrs ago #100

She turned and pushed a button BidenRocks 17 hrs ago #158

See post 27. Keep digging that hole, dear heart. It is such a good look for you. niyad 20 hrs ago #130

Damn straight niyad. MontanaMama 34 min ago #213

I am angry, and disgusted. niyad 31 min ago #215

As we should be. MontanaMama 28 min ago #216

If you are in that situation, you have every reason to believe someone is going to try and rape you. FascismIsDeath 12 hrs ago #189

"Excessive" would have been another two or three kicks to his nuts. GoCubsGo 23 hrs ago #76

Nope. MontanaMama 22 hrs ago #91

+1 for the blame comment. - nt CrispyQ 17 hrs ago #159

She should've shouted "but the DOW is over fifty thousand" Shambala 21 hrs ago #114

Snicker niyad 20 hrs ago #132

Public Service Notice ninjanurse 20 hrs ago #134

Not sure about this because she would surely have been in fear of her life. He assaulted her by PatrickforB 17 hrs ago #154

Well, if that had gone to trial and she was in the dock on assault charges, and I were on the jury... Jedi Guy 14 hrs ago #178

I don't think so. A man is bigger and stronger than a woman, so she would be justified in fearing that if she didn't tblue37 12 hrs ago #184

A women who was assaulted in a confined space she cannot readily retreat from can/should use all the force she can Attilatheblond 1 hr ago #206

Golly, maybe if he had smiled more she wouldn't have felt the need to fiercely defend herself until she could escape Attilatheblond 1 hr ago #210

Hope she left some lasting damage dalton99a Yesterday #4

And That's How You Do It! MineralMan Yesterday #5

She really dealt with that assaulter but hope she also called security and police to protect other less capable women. MLAA Yesterday #6

The fact that we are seeing the video... Soul_of_Wit Yesterday #36

I'm pretty sure a lot of elevators have security cameras in them. MineralMan 23 hrs ago #78

I assumed it was security video Soul_of_Wit 1 hr ago #209

Yes. They only look at them if there is an incident. MineralMan 46 min ago #211

That was the perfect place to put my last heart. 1WorldHope Yesterday #8

K&R! Torchlight Yesterday #12

Good for her! SheltieLover Yesterday #13

Whoa, don't know if this is real, but I'm gonna use her moves! Joinfortmill Yesterday #16

He (and Trump) need a dictionary that explain what "No!" means. Ping Tung Yesterday #19

From 2016, apparently woman is a Beijing TV host and actress. betsuni Yesterday #21

Thank you for this. I thought it looked a bit familiar. Still relevant. niyad 19 hrs ago #135

My first thought was AI slop. Thanks for the post. Monsieur_Grumpe 4 hrs ago #196

I wish more women/girls had more situational awareness. irisblue Yesterday #24

A friend asked me once why I do not use headphones when I am niyad Yesterday #39

Holy shit that was pretty badass! fujiyamasan Yesterday #28

Bravo! You go, girl! Vinca Yesterday #31

BRAVA!!! niyad Yesterday #37

I do not know whether this was staged (as I remember a similar video niyad Yesterday #35

Excessive force, Maj. Dude Yesterday #41

Well done! UpInArms 23 hrs ago #44

This seems staged. However, IF this video teaches or inspires a woman to: flvegan 23 hrs ago #46

What more do we know about this? I think it looks like... QueerDuck 23 hrs ago #47

There is a (possibly apocryphal) story from many years ago in the London tube dickthegrouch 23 hrs ago #55

She was in danger with no ability to flee until the door opened Ritabert 23 hrs ago #63

And THAT, my dears, is how it is DONE!!!!! hamsterjill 23 hrs ago #64

I celebrate her quick reactions--and good aim! hlthe2b 23 hrs ago #73

Good for her. He has no business putting hands on her. She did excellent. Don't minimize. Srkdqltr 23 hrs ago #79

Possibly fake video Tasmanian Devil 22 hrs ago #81

Nope. That is a camera mounted in the ceiling of the elevator car. MineralMan 22 hrs ago #104

well, i guess i could smile at the camera next time i'm in an elevator -- but i don't think it'll show up very good orleans 16 hrs ago #168

Looks fake to me. There's a lot of this stuff getting posted in the "reels" Liberal In Texas 22 hrs ago #107

So.... MorbidButterflyTat 22 hrs ago #113

LOL! ShazzieB 12 hrs ago #180

Well done. It falls into the same category then as that bear in the forest question... PeaceWave 21 hrs ago #116

Wut? Brenda 19 hrs ago #147

And the only rec for this post calling it AI slop is Brenda 19 hrs ago #143

Please ... Tasmanian Devil 17 hrs ago #153

This looks so fake Chicagogrl1 22 hrs ago #83

It's fake. They're both amateur actors. Made to be click-bait and passed all over social media. Liberal In Texas 19 hrs ago #149

Fake or not, if only something like that had happened to a convicted 34-count... the nelm 15 hrs ago #170

I can't believe that the guy thought that would work. mjvpi 22 hrs ago #85

He got what's coming to him. bluescribbler 22 hrs ago #89

She did a fine job. Swede 22 hrs ago #94

should have kicked him once more when he was down moonshinegnomie 22 hrs ago #103

It looks rehearsed. Omnipresent 22 hrs ago #105

"She allowed him...." MorbidButterflyTat 22 hrs ago #111

I never suggested she put herself in a corner. Omnipresent 8 hrs ago #194

And if he came at her again when her back was against the wall, she could have been trapped. ShazzieB 18 hrs ago #151

My point is that most people want to see who is lurking around behind them. Omnipresent 8 hrs ago #193

Convince me this isn't staged misanthrope 22 hrs ago #106

Staged or scripted Tasmanian Devil 22 hrs ago #112

I don't care if it's staged or not. Dem_in_Nebr. 20 hrs ago #121

Yeah, even if it was staged or faked, I think it was informative. ShazzieB 12 hrs ago #187

And THAT is how it's done. Javaman 20 hrs ago #122

If i am alone on an elevator and a MineralMan 20 hrs ago #123

Used to be a tip of the Fedora. BidenRocks 15 hrs ago #173

Well, don't expect a tip of the MAGA cap. MineralMan 3 hrs ago #200

I've watched the video a couple of times and IMO no jury would convict her LogDog75 19 hrs ago #136

FAFO Timewas 19 hrs ago #137

I also agree that no jury would convict her. HeartsCanHope 19 hrs ago #141

She was in an enclosed space with someone making unwanted advances, with no way to know how far he was going DFW 19 hrs ago #146

Right on. Tactical Peek 19 hrs ago #144

Not been Rebl2 19 hrs ago #148

Same here. And I did not get on an elevator if there was a lone man there. niyad 18 hrs ago #150

Think back to 2016 canetoad 17 hrs ago #155

That's about how old this staged video is. Hassin Bin Sober 17 hrs ago #162

Really? canetoad 16 hrs ago #163

I'll have to remember that move! ShazzieB 12 hrs ago #188

Can you just imagine the hysteria had she done so? niyad 27 min ago #217

Women bdamomma 16 hrs ago #164

If real, she did exactly the right thing. chowmama 16 hrs ago #166

'Bought 9-10 years ago, my husband broke up a dude from hitting the dude's girlfriend. chouchou 15 hrs ago #172

She should have nailed him even more. Make him a eunuch. BigmanPigman 15 hrs ago #174

Good for her! ABC123Easy 14 hrs ago #176

This message was self-deleted by its author LudwigPastorius 14 hrs ago #177

excellent job. pansypoo53219 7 hrs ago #195

Busting his nuts! Smart move. ProudMNDemocrat 4 hrs ago #198

Violence is good as long as we agree with the outcome AZLD4Candidate 3 hrs ago #199

Good for Her!! She walloped an Epstein Jr. !! It appears she is trained blue-wave 3 hrs ago #201

ouch... myohmy2 3 hrs ago #202

Just make sure you hurt them bad enough they can't follow you. Linda ladeewolf 2 hrs ago #203

That looked super choreographed LoveSucky 2 hrs ago #204