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BaronChocula

(3,874 posts)
9. I used to be a lot more gregarious
Thu Dec 4, 2025, 04:04 PM
6 hrs ago

I enjoyed using my witty talents to entertain, but there was some ambivalence. Then I realized that I have some form of social anxiety. I now don't like being around a lot of people and it's been like that for years. Some people would call me oversensitive, but I just consider myself hyperaware. I'm very sensitive to other people's dysfunctional behavior even when it's minor. Can't stand being with people who don't listen, speak all in clichés, are only concerned with what everyone else is talking about, and, well, I can go on. Oh! And I'm really bugged by people who just heard of something basic that's new to them and then they go on to tell you about it assuming you've never heard of it even though you have. Happened to me the other day. That phone conversation didn't last long.

While I have no problem with keeping my distance with people I do appreciate the patience other people have with putting up with annoying company.

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Thanks MustLoveBeagles 9 hrs ago #1
You're fine, but the videos on that channel are made with AI. See reply 17. highplainsdem 11 min ago #19
thanks for this...me in a nutshell N/T dwp6577 8 hrs ago #2
Anymore I tend to like dogs better than a lot of people. groundloop 7 hrs ago #3
I have a little plaque in my house that says: CousinIT 1 hr ago #16
I always have said I consider 4 leggeds to be much better company than 2-leggeds! slightlv 7 hrs ago #4
It's better to be alone than to be with someone and wishing you were alone. mobeau69 6 hrs ago #5
Isn't that the truth MustLoveBeagles 6 hrs ago #6
Absolutely. n/t CousinIT 4 hrs ago #11
I Had 5 Friends As Of July. Then One Died. Another Has .... ColoringFool 6 hrs ago #7
I only have a few friends, but they're good ones. MIButterfly 6 hrs ago #8
I used to be a lot more gregarious BaronChocula 6 hrs ago #9
First, Sing it, Zackzzzz 5 hrs ago #10
No friends, that's me but I'm good with it. 🙂 nt Raine 3 hrs ago #12
I had good friends before COVID. ananda 3 hrs ago #13
glurge WhiskeyGrinder 3 hrs ago #14
The entire channel is apparently AI-generated. See reply 17. highplainsdem 14 min ago #18
I'm saying WhiskeyGrinder 7 min ago #20
I wasn't sure exactly how to read "glurge" but it could be a drowning-in-AI-slop noise. And YouTube highplainsdem 1 min ago #21
Post.Of.The.Day WarGamer 3 hrs ago #15
The videos on that YouTube channel are made with AI, probably with the script written by AI. NOT highplainsdem 15 min ago #17
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