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mnhtnbb

(32,879 posts)
50. December 28, 2020
Sun Sep 28, 2025, 09:33 PM
Sunday

I found this on the street in front of the house that I had bought/closed on just a week earlier. Took the photo in my car, parked on the street, right after I found it. My good luck was probably the bad luck for a workman who lost it out of a pocket.



I planned to move in January 6th, but the next time I came over before then, I discovered someone had broken into the house, folded the area rug I'd bought for my dining area, and partied on it in front of the gas fireplace. The kitchen counters were sticky and some new towels I'd put in the bathrooms had been stolen.

Within a matter of days, the universe had presented me with examples of both good and bad luck. It really made me think about the presence of good fortune in my life compared to the instances in my life when I've had bad--and sometimes heart breakingly bad--luck.

I am fortunate to have the means to be able to share my good fortune. I've made donations to all sorts of charitable organizations for the last 50 years of my adult life. I've put dollar bills in the hats of street artists. But up until I found that $100 bill, I'd never handed any cash to someone clearly in need, with a sign on the street at a stoplight. So, I started carrying a $5 or $10 or $20 in the center console of my car. And when the circumstances happen that I'm in the lane--stopped-- next to someone with a sign asking for donations, I roll my window down and hand that person $5 or $10 or $20. I've given away more than that $100 I found in the last several years, and I've enjoyed every moment of those very brief interactions. Maybe I'm a fool, but I don't care what others think. Every time I handed money to any of those individuals, it was done in a spirit of trust, with affection, and every single person who accepted what I offered seemed appreciative. Every interaction felt worth it to me, and I will continue to do it, from time to time, as the opportunity arises.

I hope you will continue to share your good fortune with others as the opportunity arises and the circumstances feel right to you, too.

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So why do I feel guilty? [View all] 1monster Sunday OP
Impulsive good deeds are the best kind I think. Irish_Dem Sunday #1
You did good,1monster. sheshe2 Sunday #2
A nice gesture snowybirdie Sunday #3
Giving kcoates Sunday #4
I've done things like this before. LuckyCharms Sunday #5
Thank you. 1monster Sunday #6
Inner voice giveth and inner voice taketh away. Moral: don't listen to inner voices Bernardo de La Paz Sunday #7
I guess most of us have some form of PTSD... 1monster Sunday #11
Some therapists make a distinction between inner critic (attacking) and inner voice (supportive) Bernardo de La Paz Sunday #18
I don't know any women who don't 2nd guess themselves. 1WorldHope Sunday #8
So I guess that is the real question... why do we 1monster Sunday #12
It is a useful internal function that easily gets out of hand, like a million things like say vehicle maintenance Bernardo de La Paz Sunday #22
Regarding, "So the question is" .. So we are easier for the patriarchy to control. 1WorldHope Sunday #36
I'm guessing it's mostly pure habit. soldierant Sunday #51
You did something nice malaise Sunday #9
Ultimately the bottom line both about the action and how to deal with it. . . . nt Bernardo de La Paz Sunday #23
This always helps me quiet that mini mean me in my head pat_k Sunday #10
You did a nice thing Wifes husband Sunday #13
Short answer usonian Sunday #14
You did a nice thing. TomSlick Sunday #15
You did good. You made the world a little better today Jerry2144 Sunday #16
We live in a society that is performative: Raven123 Sunday #17
Can you imagine the joy you gave that woman? PittBlue Sunday #19
Feeling good because you do good... viva la Sunday #20
You did good kid. Don't let those voices dilute your good deed. patphil Sunday #21
Please forgive me for my slant on this, JMCKUSICK Sunday #24
Honestly, when I see homeless people, I don't 1monster Sunday #54
Thank you for not taking my post negatively. JMCKUSICK Sunday #59
I've known some street folks who, with a little help, turned their lives around... 70sEraVet Sunday #25
This is what I do Tom Dyer Sunday #26
You are a wise person to know all of those sides to yourself. mjvpi Sunday #27
You did good. Don't let Republican voices take over your head and claim you applegrove Sunday #28
Money comes and money goes and money comes again. colorado_ufo Sunday #29
My own philosophy was Warpy Sunday #30
You did something nice for someone! cate94 Sunday #31
A really fine thing for you to do for someone you don't even know. I do have a suggestion, tho.. Deuxcents Sunday #32
1monster came from a book I read many, many years ago... 1monster Sunday #55
Perhaps she needed it more Keepthesoulalive Sunday #33
You have NOTHING to feel guilty about. You saw a beautiful rainbow, niyad Sunday #34
Forgive yourself ZDU Sunday #35
May your generous act come back to you 100 fold! sprinkleeninow Sunday #37
You will realize a benefit for your generosity. Mblaze Sunday #38
The way you describe it, Glorious bastard Sunday #39
As someone who once relied on the kindness of a stranger berniesandersmittens Sunday #40
Socks are damned expensive these days... 1monster Sunday #56
It made you feel good and it made her feel good. StarryNite Sunday #41
Don't feel guilty Glen Livid Sunday #42
A favorite line I have used for myself and often say to others... llmart Sunday #53
MOST OF US -- in fact, all but a very few of us . . . AverageOldGuy Sunday #43
Don't let that sour voice overwhelm your goodness Easterncedar Sunday #44
You did what you thought was right IbogaProject Sunday #45
Think of it as a deposit to the Karma Bank moonbeam23 Sunday #46
Doing something nice for someone else is a very selfish act tavernier Sunday #47
I think you have a very healthy and active conscience. SleeplessinSoCal Sunday #48
I remember the day I closed on buying my first house... Tommy Carcetti Sunday #49
December 28, 2020 mnhtnbb Sunday #50
Why are you so mean to yourself? Because patriarchal society tells women niyad Sunday #52
Those inner voices can be serious assholes. Maru Kitteh Sunday #57
When someone who doesn't have a lot GIVES, it is truly a beautiful thing. hamsterjill Sunday #58
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Its called, "Pay It Forward" Bayard Yesterday #62
You did good. MuseRider 2 hrs ago #63
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