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StarryNite

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41. It made you feel good and it made her feel good.

Sun Sep 28, 2025, 08:53 PM

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If you hadn't done it you would be questioning yourself as to why you didn't. Just be happy knowing that she is going to be able to eat well for a few days because of your kindness.

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