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In reply to the discussion: Newsom has taken the "Alpha" male crown away from Trump and it's driving MAGA crazy [View all]summer_in_TX
(3,791 posts)19. Turns out there's science to back that up.
Bully the Bully: The Psychology of What Gavin Newsom Is Getting Right
"Turns out, when faced with a bully, ignoring them and taking the high road isnt just ineffective; its psychologically counterproductive."
The tactic is called "mirroring" or adopting the opponent's style and pattern of communication. That disrupts their advantage, throwing them off balance.
The aggressiveness Newsom shows in pushing back feels definitely more authentic than the measured political responses more typical of Democrats. "People trust fighters more than diplomats when they feel under attack".
This explains so much, doesn't it? Including why Dems are sinking in the polls in spite of the authoritarian over-reach of DJT.
Aren't we craving exactly what Newsom is providing?
"Turns out, when faced with a bully, ignoring them and taking the high road isnt just ineffective; its psychologically counterproductive."
Governor Gavin Newsom figured this out. While Democrats spent years wringing their hands about norms and dignity, Newsom did something radical: he started fighting fire with fire. Hes trolling Trump with memes, calling his officials fascist cucks, and posting TikToks that mock the president with Nickelback songs. The pearl-clutchers are horrified. The psychologists? Theyre fascinated.
Research on bullying reveals an uncomfortable truth that contradicts decades of feel-good advice. Studies of children aged 1112 found that those who returned hostility with hostility appeared to be the most mature. Boys who stood up to bullies were judged more socially competent by their teachers, while girls who fought back were more popular and more admired by teachers and peers.
Research on bullying reveals an uncomfortable truth that contradicts decades of feel-good advice. Studies of children aged 1112 found that those who returned hostility with hostility appeared to be the most mature. Boys who stood up to bullies were judged more socially competent by their teachers, while girls who fought back were more popular and more admired by teachers and peers.
The tactic is called "mirroring" or adopting the opponent's style and pattern of communication. That disrupts their advantage, throwing them off balance.
The aggressiveness Newsom shows in pushing back feels definitely more authentic than the measured political responses more typical of Democrats. "People trust fighters more than diplomats when they feel under attack".
Newsom isnt just trolling for attention; hes using scientifically validated psychological principles to challenge authoritarian behavior. Hes discovered that sometimes the most effective way to protect democratic norms isnt to model them perfectly, but to prevent their opponents from trampling them completely.
This explains so much, doesn't it? Including why Dems are sinking in the polls in spite of the authoritarian over-reach of DJT.
Aren't we craving exactly what Newsom is providing?
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Newsom has taken the "Alpha" male crown away from Trump and it's driving MAGA crazy [View all]
Quixote1818
Aug 20
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May I just say that his remark about Palmer was so strange and came out of nowhere and it confirmed my suspicion that he
CTyankee
Aug 21
#33
you made great points and you made me laugh - that's a great thing. last image. truly sad that would make
somaticexperiencing
Aug 20
#7
At some point - tantrum trump and his mango minions will try to out-do Newsom right back at him and fail miserably.
NBachers
Aug 20
#11
You are so right! doesn't it feel good to be strongly FOR a candidate instead of constantly beating our brains out
CTyankee
Aug 21
#38
Our Texas Democrats need to do this. They are so much better looking than the Texas GOP!
LeftInTX
Aug 21
#34
The best is when it is mocking or pointing out hypocrisy without sliding over into mean.
summer_in_TX
Aug 22
#57
It's so satisfying watching Donny get cucked, owned, and exposed for the fat dumb fuck he is
Blue Owl
Aug 21
#28
I don't think he has "taken the Alpha male crown"; he's made them confront their delusions about Trump
muriel_volestrangler
Aug 21
#48