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Koinos

(2,800 posts)
14. Resiliant and humble.
Mon Jul 20, 2015, 10:26 AM
Jul 2015

What I admire about O'Malley is that he didn't run away. He admitted his mistake and was contrite. And then he stayed for hours talking to people, listening to what they had to say, and shaking hands. He cares about what other people think, and he learns from them. The incident didn't make him angry; it made him more determined than ever to work hard on an interpersonal basis. He is used to facing people who are angry and in pain. As mayor of Baltimore, he experienced and took to heart the pain of many people who lost loved ones to violence in Baltimore. He has referred many times to the family of five that was murdered for reporting a drug deal. He is well acquainted with BLM, since they have protested him in the past. O'Malley has empathy. He carries the pain of many with him. He has made mistakes, and he has had amazing successes as an executive. But he goes on, tries to do better. There was no question in his mind that he had to return to Baltimore when it was hurting. Many pundits said he was finished for returning to Baltimore, for announcing his candidacy in Baltimore. I took it another way. This guy doesn't let up. I don't have a tenth of his character and courage, but I know it when I see it. He doesn't react to anger with anger; he learns from it and grows from it. As Confucius said, the small man blames others when things go wrong. The great man blames himself, examines himself, and changes what he is doing.

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I don't think he was wrong in the context he said it... Kalidurga Jul 2015 #1
Yes, Kalidurga, 100%. elleng Jul 2015 #2
I think he did a very good thing by apologizing. Raine1967 Jul 2015 #3
Yes, very brave, elleng Jul 2015 #4
Video of MO'M from TWiB at NRN: Raine1967 Jul 2015 #5
I hate the way the media is framing this apology. askew Jul 2015 #6
That's where we are gonna have to do some one line grassroots stuff! Raine1967 Jul 2015 #13
Excellent summary. askew Jul 2015 #17
And now he does JustAnotherGen Jul 2015 #7
YES! elleng Jul 2015 #8
And still we have another thread JustAnotherGen Jul 2015 #9
or maybe they don't WANT to get it. elleng Jul 2015 #10
I was naughty JustAnotherGen Jul 2015 #11
*snort* Raine1967 Jul 2015 #12
HAHAHA! elleng Jul 2015 #16
Had them stumped for a moment, didn't it? Koinos Jul 2015 #18
Resiliant and humble. Koinos Jul 2015 #14
Darn right elleng Jul 2015 #15
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