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Old Crow

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5. I very seldom give up on a book I've started. Here's why (a few reasons).
Fri Sep 5, 2014, 05:55 PM
Sep 2014
#1. Forcing yourself through a book can help you grow as a reader.
Sometimes the only way to grow as a reader is to force yourself to read material that you're initially resistant to. For example, I almost bailed on Trainspotting when I discovered the book was written in really... uhhh... committed Scottish dialect and laced with profanity. Example:

They cunts've goat the fuckin poppy. You're the cunt thits eywis fuckin gaun oan aboot killin the rich n aw that anarchy shite. Now ye want tae fuckin shite oot! Begbie sneers at Rents, and it's, likes, very ugly n aw; they dark eyebrows oan toap ay they darker eyes, that thick black hair, slightly longer than a skinheid.

Thank goodness I stuck with it: the book proved to be one of my favorite reads of 2013. (I was late joining the Irvine Welsh party.)

#2. Bad novels can sometimes teach you a lot, even if it's not quite what the author intended.
A couple decades ago, I was about to vacation on North Carolina's Outer Banks, so I was grabbing and reading just about anything that was either about the Banks or used the locale of the Banks. One of the books was a mainstream romance novel, written for--how shall I put this?--the lowbrow female reader longing for a good shtupp with a hunk. (Hope I haven't offended, but so help me God, that's the truth, as you'll see by what follows.) I hated it. Hated it! But I stuck with it and managed to have a bit of fun by changing my approach from "Reader Looking for Enlightenment" to "Anthropologist Trying to Figure Out Just Who Would Want to Read This Stuff." Toward the end of the novel, I hit paydirt: There was a climactic lovemaking scene where the heroine, in a postcoital haze, looks down and notices the glowing hands of the man's watch on the nightstand--and the author took care to inform the reader that it was a Rolex watch. No, I'm not making this up. Clearly, these were readers not just looking for a good shtupp with a hunk--they were looking for a good shtupp with a hunk who wears a Rolex watch. I still laugh whenever I think about that scene. That was the novel in a nutshell and had I thrown the book aside, I would never have come across that ridiculous little gem.

#3. One word: Closure.
I simply can't stand the feeling I get when I've stopped reading a book I haven't finished. This may sound overblown, but it's the best way I can describe it: It's like not having attended the funeral of a relative you weren't close to, but knew. There's always this sense of incompletion, and something undone, and it's unsettling.

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Oh yes shenmue Sep 2014 #1
I just have so many other more interesting books I want to get to. closeupready Sep 2014 #2
Why feel guilty? Think of all the time you did NOT waste by reading through to the end. (nt) enough Sep 2014 #3
That's a good way of putting it, yes. Thanks. closeupready Sep 2014 #4
Re-reading good books is always a good idea. (nt) enough Sep 2014 #9
Totally Agree Wolf Frankula Sep 2014 #17
I very seldom give up on a book I've started. Here's why (a few reasons). Old Crow Sep 2014 #5
Thanks those are some good points. closeupready Sep 2014 #7
LOL... good point, actually, regarding Wikipedia Old Crow Sep 2014 #10
Factoid of the day: when I'm indecisive about what to read next, closeupready Sep 2014 #14
At the risk of being picky, SheilaT Oct 2014 #32
Guilty over not finishing a book? No way. scarletwoman Sep 2014 #6
Thanks - I really resent being drawn in to this piece of crap book. closeupready Sep 2014 #8
Donate the book to your local library, or a homeless shelter, or a 2nd hand store. scarletwoman Sep 2014 #12
With all the great books that I have yet to read, Curmudgeoness Sep 2014 #11
I so agree fadedrose Sep 2014 #13
Ah, so true about just trying to get to the end Curmudgeoness Sep 2014 #16
Never feel guilty about putting a book down. SheilaT Sep 2014 #15
Thanks - I did put it down, and closeupready Sep 2014 #25
I feel a little guilty, but I do it anyway. Chemisse Sep 2014 #18
I seldom quit a book part way through. Enthusiast Sep 2014 #19
I give a book 10% of the total pages Goblinmonger Sep 2014 #20
Your first mistake was buying a Clive Cussler book. Tracer Sep 2014 #21
lol, yeah - you know, like a lot of people, I do pre-judge a book closeupready Sep 2014 #22
Good choice! oldandhappy Sep 2014 #23
Yes libodem Sep 2014 #24
No. Not in the least bit. And, I've learned several hard lessons along the way... GOLGO 13 Sep 2014 #26
Yes. Sometimes. AngryOldDem Oct 2014 #27
I happened to like "The Girl at the Lion D'Or" very much, SheilaT Oct 2014 #28
Absolutely no guilt! gratefultobelib Oct 2014 #29
I'm 65..... llmart Oct 2014 #30
Nope bigwillq Oct 2014 #31
No guilt Susannah Elf Apr 2015 #33
I used to, but like others have mentioned, hippywife Apr 2015 #34
Not unless it's a book on loan from a friend. Paladin Apr 2015 #35
Nope. I'm in the middle of one right now, a loan from a friend, and I don't think I'm going to raccoon Apr 2015 #36
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