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OldBaldy1701E

(8,480 posts)
14. Yes, that is the line.
Sat Jul 19, 2025, 08:25 AM
Jul 19

However, if one is not holding a phone with one hand and a gun or knife against the temple in the other, they don't seem willing to do much, if anything.

Also, according to those who I have spoken with who did use such a service, they kept trying to get the person to tell them where they were, so that they could 'intervene'. (The person was using a cheap burner phone and, for some reason, they could not get it 'pinged'.)

Police interventions for those suffering from mental health episodes are not exactly... smooth... most of the time, so using such a 'resource' is problematic at best.

(I have been literally cussed out by suicide line operators because I was not holding a hostage or standing with my throat already cut. I have been lectured by suicide line operators because I was not so despondent that I was in tears and inarticulately screaming at them. So, in my experience, those things are a waste of time if you want help before you start your 'rampage'. Which is about as silly a thing as I have ever heard, since that is the best time to get help.)

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I hear you markie Jul 17 #1
Thanks. OldBaldy1701E Jul 17 #8
thinking about you markie Jul 17 #12
I hear you, too Sea A Chell Jul 17 #2
Thanks. OldBaldy1701E Jul 17 #9
Have you tried these folks? Ocelot II Jul 17 #3
Thanks. OldBaldy1701E Jul 17 #7
I hope they can help - at least from their web site they seem more amenable Ocelot II Jul 17 #11
Dammitt, I wish I was in a better place to help, but all I can do is send hugs :( FirstLight Jul 17 #4
I hear that. OldBaldy1701E Jul 17 #10
Is the person you were trying to help suicidal? Haggard Celine Jul 17 #5
I apologize for the confusion. OldBaldy1701E Jul 17 #6
Have you tried the suicide hotline? Lulu KC Jul 18 #13
Yes, that is the line. OldBaldy1701E Jul 19 #14
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