Chronic Health Conditions Discussion and Support
In reply to the discussion: anyone here living w an ostomy? [View all]marble falls
(67,046 posts)... wearing slacks is out, but I'm not a sweatpants sort of fellow. So I wear chef's pants, which look good, are baggy in the right places and I get a lot of compliments on my fashion flair.
It means not having to get up nights to hit the can. It means by adding a second bag I can drive through to the next fuel stop. It means I can testify to the dangers of second hand cigarette smoke. It means between the surgeries for colon cancer in 2017 (they left enough colon I don't need a colostomy bag), and the bladder cancer surgery, my front looks like a road map.
People like us are too tough and pragmatic to let it get us down past the initial shock (and I have some insight on that shock), it took me a month at least to be able to look at the stoma, let alone deal with it. I treated it like a disfigurement when what it was, was a reconfiguration.
C'mon, show it your innate tough Chicago being and pull through!
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