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gerryatwork

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9. Everyone reacts differently

Tue Apr 7, 2026, 06:12 AM

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You are going to have unfortunate symptoms.
You will be asked to”how are you doing” by friends, relatives, business associates. The standard response is “I’m fine”. Even though you probably will not be. But hopefully you will be. It’s OK probably better to let everybody know how you really feel.

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No doubt i will be back to whine some more, because DU is awesome Laurelin Tuesday #8

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I hope not for you! Laurelin Tuesday #46

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