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Stuart G

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25. Thank You for your wisdom..
Tue Mar 5, 2019, 08:05 AM
Mar 2019
"Each person in recovery has to develop a set of tools to use that works for them because we all have different personalities and history."

..Some people meditate twice or three times a day. Some meditate after exercise. It is up to each of us to figure out the best course of action and use of the tools to stay sober. What works for someone often does not work for someone else. Yet the bottom line is "Keep Coming Back." When we isolate, we get into our own heads, and often that is not the best place to go. It might be a very difficult place to go.

..When we go to meetings, we are forced to listen and watch. That gets us out of our own self thinking prison. Listening and talking to others helps us in ways that each of us appreciates and understands. Sometimes, it is not easy just to listen.

...Often it takes time to develop the use of the tools that works best. But in today's world, many of us are looking for an instant answer to our problems. The same instant answer that we used to get when we used our substance of addiction. I took a long time to develop the tools that work for me. Most of us take some time to develop those tools. For me, I think about two ideas..."If it were easy, it would be easy " Also, "If it were easy, really easy, then everyone would be successful in recovery." Do not give up, Good Luck, and "Keep Coming Back"


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What I'm grateful for today [View all] irisblue Nov 2018 OP
You are indeed blessed. no_hypocrisy Nov 2018 #1
Excellent! vlyons Nov 2018 #2
I'm grateful that I'm not drinking and my love is here with me... Dennis Donovan Nov 2018 #3
Its always more productive to count what you have. marble falls Nov 2018 #4
I'm thankfil for this wild ride called life. Hotler Nov 2018 #5
Wonderful! Those meetings are seriously life-saving and life-sustaining. calimary Nov 2018 #6
Thank You for a terrific and wonderful post...Thank You again.. Stuart G Nov 2018 #7
I am grateful today for getting up reasonably healthy, and also for... Stuart G Dec 2018 #8
I just read the thread in the lounge... irisblue Dec 2018 #9
Help. stevil Feb 2019 #11
Whatta ya need? I'm up. irisblue Feb 2019 #12
A smile and I'm ok stevil Feb 2019 #13
😊 irisblue Feb 2019 #14
Only to be able to sleep. stevil Feb 2019 #15
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A Golden Retriever and John Lennon will save my life. stevil Feb 2019 #21
I don't like being worried. stevil Feb 2019 #17
Stevil, just a suggestion.... KY_EnviroGuy Feb 2019 #20
Thank you. stevil Feb 2019 #22
Thank you. stevil Mar 2019 #23
You're very welcome, and you are helping me too! KY_EnviroGuy Mar 2019 #24
Thank You for your wisdom.. Stuart G Mar 2019 #25
And, thank you for yours, Stewart. I enjoy sharing E, S, and H with others. KY_EnviroGuy Mar 2019 #26
I'm grateful that you share stevil Feb 2019 #10
I'm new stevil Feb 2019 #19
Gratis, and we are blessed to have you on DU, Irisblue. Anon-C Mar 2019 #27
So 3/5/19 gratitudes irisblue Mar 2019 #28
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