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NullTuples

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13. I read the name of that game & it took me back.
Sun Jan 22, 2023, 05:35 PM
Jan 2023

For a time in early elementary school I went to a catholic grade school. The playgrounds were paved, so falling or being piled on resulted in scrapes and bruises that lasted. And when a ball was involved, it was an old-school hard tetherball, minus the rope. The kind that had a hard plastic loop that protruded from the top. The playground was walled in on three sides, so whoever was the target (typically me or one of two other kids) was boxed in.

I use "queer" in support of the way the younger generation has reclaimed it as a matter of Pride, but if someone objects I try not to use it further in that conversation as they've told me it hurts them to hear it.

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I'll be interested in LGBTQ DUer's thoughts on this... n/t hlthe2b Jan 2023 #1
Everything I've read/seen/discussed indicates it's mostly generational NullTuples Jan 2023 #12
Lesbian, Lezzie, Dyke, Femme, Queer, Woman Loving Womyn irisblue Jan 2023 #2
I'm straight male, but... Layzeebeaver Jan 2023 #3
It means when he said "we", "I" would've been more suitable. He was making a claim... NullTuples Jan 2023 #11
Fair enough and a good observation Layzeebeaver Jan 2023 #18
I doubt I'd have ever used "queer" because *I* see it as derogatory based on when I was a kid. underpants Jan 2023 #4
Yes, I will never use the term for that reason. But, it is not my hlthe2b Jan 2023 #6
Strange Currencies underpants Jan 2023 #7
I read the name of that game & it took me back. NullTuples Jan 2023 #13
I was called "queerbait" in middle and high school and frequently beaten bloody by bullies. hunter Jan 2023 #16
Queer has made a strong comeback Tree-Hugger Jan 2023 #5
I need to check with my daughter but don't use that word. That being said.... underpants Jan 2023 #8
Historically ... Pete Ross Junior Jan 2023 #9
I wonder if the shame of needing a code word is part of what the younger generations... NullTuples Jan 2023 #14
"Queer" isn't a term I identify with. David__77 Jan 2023 #10
That is correct! Younger people use it as an all-inclusive term that includes neurodiversity... NullTuples Jan 2023 #15
This one is interesting vercetti2021 Jan 2023 #17
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