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Flaxbee

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6. We have streamlined a bit over the last few years, having moved a few times.
Sat Sep 15, 2012, 06:47 PM
Sep 2012

That always helps, because you wonder why you're lugging junk around.

But there are things I can never give up - my grandmother used to make these pretty, beaded bells for Christmas and I think I only have two, but I'd die defending those bells. I touch them and swear I can feel my grandma. But they're small, two can fit in the palm of my hand. She had made hundreds of them, but I chose two. Could you do that with the collection of tea cups? Keep one or two to represent the connection to your mother and grandmother, and let the rest go?

Some bigger items, pieces of furniture I don't really like, etc., I've let go, even though they have memories.

We're definitely at a stage where things are harder just because we've already culled so much. But another round of ruthless reduction is coming, I can feel it.

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I moved from a 2400 square foot home onto a 43 foot sailboat. cbayer Sep 2012 #1
I'd like to do the same thing, though perhaps not move onto a sailboat Flaxbee Sep 2012 #2
In my experience, your possessions will grow to fit the amount of space you have. cbayer Sep 2012 #3
true, about the tendency of stuff to expand to fill any given space Flaxbee Sep 2012 #5
Sounds like your husband is the one in need of a studio, lol. cbayer Sep 2012 #9
too funny. I know the scenario too well: "Mad hunts with much disruption of the space" Flaxbee Sep 2012 #15
I FINALLY got him to keep most of his tools in one place. If I find them around, cbayer Sep 2012 #17
Don't believe her. It's all lies. Starboard Tack Sep 2012 #19
And I call it chaotic disorganization! cbayer Sep 2012 #21
I am trying to figure this out now. Curmudgeoness Sep 2012 #4
We have streamlined a bit over the last few years, having moved a few times. Flaxbee Sep 2012 #6
Why do you have to have another round Curmudgeoness Sep 2012 #7
I still have clothes I haven't worn in years tucked into drawers, books I'm never going to Flaxbee Sep 2012 #8
Oh, you are not at ruthless reduction yet. Curmudgeoness Sep 2012 #12
We have a trade rack in the laundromat. People, including tourists, bring their books, cbayer Sep 2012 #14
I agree that it would be an excellent idea Curmudgeoness Sep 2012 #18
Reminds me of a guy I met in NYC in the 1980s. Starboard Tack Sep 2012 #22
FREECYCLE! TexasBushwhacker Apr 2013 #33
I think that I am going to regret that. Curmudgeoness Apr 2013 #34
It worked out well for me in Austin TexasBushwhacker Apr 2013 #35
At least there was a group where I live, Curmudgeoness Apr 2013 #36
I know a lot of places like that, attached to dumps in the northeast. MADem Mar 2013 #31
I know - there is still some easy tossing-out to do. Flaxbee Sep 2012 #16
It's the things that have been soaked in memories and acquired meaning that are the hardest cbayer Sep 2012 #10
I absolutely dumped a lot of clothes. Curmudgeoness Sep 2012 #11
Lol. He's quite kind about it, but he does let me know. cbayer Sep 2012 #13
Might be time to take the teacups to the "Antiques Road Show" Starboard Tack Sep 2012 #20
I should be so lucky! Curmudgeoness Sep 2012 #23
Not always. Rarity adds value for collectors. You never know. Starboard Tack Sep 2012 #24
after the Kerry loss in 2004, i was SO depressed NMDemDist2 Sep 2012 #25
thanks! This will be fun to explore Flaxbee Sep 2012 #26
I don't know about "minimalist" Le Taz Hot Sep 2012 #27
I've always done this as well and want to thank you for the reminder that it is probably time to cbayer Sep 2012 #28
I will be going minimalist soon Shankapotomus Sep 2012 #29
One of the first things I did was scan all of my photos and toss the originals. cbayer Sep 2012 #30
i was so depressed after Kerry's loss in 2004 I cleaned house NMDemDist2 Apr 2013 #32
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