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In reply to the discussion: This message was self-deleted by its author [View all]Major Nikon
(36,922 posts)A man shouldn't talk to a woman unless they've been properly introduced? Sorry, just sounds like something sexually uptight people would have thought was a good idea 100 years ago.
I don't believe that all women live with the irrational fear of being raped every time they meet a strange man. Certainly some do, and some may have a very good reason for being that way based on their experiences, but I don't buy that all women or even anywhere close to most women feel this way.
As far as this particular situation goes, there's not nearly enough information to draw any sort of judgement one way or another. It's possible the guy was under the effects of drugs or alcohol and/or was just being creepy. It's also possible he picked up some sort of vibe from eye contact or whatever and decided to test the waters. A big part of communication in person is non-verbal. If you're saying his actions were inherently wrong regardless of how it played out, that's where I'm going to have to disagree.
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