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Behind the Aegis

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12. There are lots of examples.

Reply to Spitfire of ATJ (Reply #11)

Tue Jul 15, 2014, 04:47 AM

Jul 2014

I don't know if she knew about that particular incident of not, but it was jarring to see such a statement, especially given it is a statement more often used against women, especially those who dressed a certain way or were drunk. Fortunately, it was not well received here. However, if you need another example, just look at comments made when an older woman is accused (or found guilty of) assaulting a younger male. They range from "lucky kid" to "he seduced her".

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1 in 6 men have experienced abusive sexual experiences before age 18 [View all] Behind the Aegis Jul 2014 OP

It happened to one of my male relatives when he was about ten. pnwmom Jul 2014 #1

This causes emotionally whacked people when mixed with classic Heartland Puritanism. Spitfire of ATJ Jul 2014 #2

I don't understand your comment. Behind the Aegis Jul 2014 #3

Think about it. You have sexual repression as a part of the culture... Spitfire of ATJ Jul 2014 #4

I still don't understand your comments. Behind the Aegis Jul 2014 #6

What fool these days claims males can't be victims? Spitfire of ATJ Jul 2014 #8

For real? Behind the Aegis Jul 2014 #9

Obviously they missed the incident with the NYPD and a lamp. Spitfire of ATJ Jul 2014 #11

There are lots of examples. Behind the Aegis Jul 2014 #12

Some people can't imagine the world beyond their own experience.... Spitfire of ATJ Jul 2014 #14

I don't know, but it demonstrates a lack of understanding. Behind the Aegis Jul 2014 #15

Thank you for this thread azurnoir Jul 2014 #5

I have my own theories as to why people think boys can't be victims. Behind the Aegis Jul 2014 #7

probably all of the above but as a mother to 3 girls and one boy azurnoir Jul 2014 #10

It is good for boys to feel than can be open about their experiences. Behind the Aegis Jul 2014 #13

That's true. Your son is more likely to be a victim of a violent crime than your daughters. n/t lumberjack_jeff Jul 2014 #18

Misandry. sibelian Aug 2014 #19

Male victimhood is repellant. sibelian Aug 2014 #20

A lot of people think life is so easy for guys, but it isn't, not unless LuvNewcastle Jul 2014 #16

"Boys can be sexually abused by both straight men and gay men." lumberjack_jeff Jul 2014 #17