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Behind the Aegis

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9. Excellent movie (suggestion)!
Wed Mar 26, 2014, 12:41 AM
Mar 2014

You are also quite correct in how it explains how nudity is treated, even today. When we were little, we weren't allowed to watch rated "R" movies, unless they were rated "R" for (tasteful, as seen by my mother) nudity. If it had excessive violence or gore, it was a no-no. My mother was forward thinking in that nudity or sex scenes, not raunch, were natural parts of the human experience. While violence is also "natural," my mom say it as 'unnatural' and didn't want us seeing such things. My dad was/is a prude. Even today, with all grown children, two married, one single, and me and my partner in limbo, he still won't watch nude scenes with us in the room and gets up in a huff. I remember one time my mom, dad, and I were all watching a movie and this woman exposed her breasts. My mom shouted, "Holy shit, I have never seen so much silicone!" I giggled. My dad angrily jumped up and said, "is this something our son should be watching?!" I was 30 at the time and openly gay! My mom and I looked at each other and burst out in laughter. My dad stormed out of the room. We had to rewind part of the movie because we kept laughing so hard we couldn't hear the dialogue.

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I suppose we could try to set a trend Doctor_J Mar 2014 #1
This is the USA plenty of men have boobs... Exultant Democracy Mar 2014 #2
Nudity didn't become dirty until the Victorian age Major Nikon Mar 2014 #3
The Butt? Warren DeMontague Mar 2014 #4
The Victorian era was a silly, silly time. ElboRuum Mar 2014 #5
The Victorian era was a horrible and self-destructive period we are still feeling the repercussions the_working_poor Mar 2014 #6
Movies are made by men kwassa Mar 2014 #7
I would posit that the MPAA rating board actually has much more to do with it. opiate69 Mar 2014 #8
Excellent movie (suggestion)! Behind the Aegis Mar 2014 #9
I still can't watch nude scenes with my mother in the room ProudToBeBlueInRhody Mar 2014 #11
My mom has always been very open about sex. Behind the Aegis Mar 2014 #12
My mom is not ProudToBeBlueInRhody Mar 2014 #13
Klingenspritzer? Warren DeMontague Mar 2014 #14
The things we remember. Behind the Aegis Mar 2014 #15
Yep Warren DeMontague Mar 2014 #16
Interesting thesis, something I had not thought of. kwassa Mar 2014 #10
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