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14. First, congratulations on 12 years. Here's to many, many more...

Reply to Behind the Aegis (Original post)

Fri Feb 21, 2014, 03:44 PM

Feb 2014

Second, your "larger" point speaks, if I'm not mistaken, to heterocentrism. I first had my eyes opened to this many years ago, by a good friend on another site I used to hang out on. It is definitely something I try to always be aware of now, and when confronted with it, I do my best to combat it. I recently had the honor of attending my first ever same sex wedding, and while that option is sadly, probably still a very long way off in your neck of the woods, I can't wait until the day everyone in this country is able to enjoy full marriage equality, and this heterocentrism is relegated to the dustbin of history where it belongs.

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(x)This is NOT about the evils of straight, white, men, BUT, it is about the reality of one gay man. [View all] Behind the Aegis Feb 2014 OP

You provide a good example mokawanis Feb 2014 #1

Thank you very much. Behind the Aegis Feb 2014 #6

You make a good point... TreasonousBastard Feb 2014 #2

I apprecaite your comment. Behind the Aegis Feb 2014 #7

I think very few of us are the actual pages. Most everyone lives somewhere in between. lumberjack_jeff Feb 2014 #28

aw hell, there it is hfojvt Feb 2014 #29

Heh. +1 n/t lumberjack_jeff Feb 2014 #30

The answer to your first question is, no I can't imagine it Major Nikon Feb 2014 #3

Thanks for your comments. Behind the Aegis Feb 2014 #8

does that work both ways though hfojvt Feb 2014 #31

Rail at God for what he has done. lumberjack_jeff Feb 2014 #33

In all honesty, I'm more like a sort of light olive. Warren DeMontague Feb 2014 #4

It is interesting some are seeing this as a "gender" issue. Behind the Aegis Feb 2014 #9

Gotcha. Warren DeMontague Feb 2014 #10

Oh you were, I just wanted to be more clear too. Behind the Aegis Feb 2014 #11

Oh yeah, one more thing. Warren DeMontague Feb 2014 #5

Congratulations on twelve years of happiness. In_The_Wind Feb 2014 #12

Thanks so much. Behind the Aegis Feb 2014 #13

Darn. Well is at least peaceful there? In_The_Wind Feb 2014 #15

For the most part, it is quite peaceful and low crime. Behind the Aegis Feb 2014 #16

I always got stuck doing the ironing when I lived with my aunt and uncle. In_The_Wind Feb 2014 #17

The thing about linen is that like silk, it lasts forever Major Nikon Feb 2014 #23

First, congratulations on 12 years. Here's to many, many more... opiate69 Feb 2014 #14

Thanks, and yes, that was my larger point. Behind the Aegis Feb 2014 #18

I'll be looking for an invitation, then! opiate69 Feb 2014 #19

Hell yeah. The dam is bursting, thankfully. Warren DeMontague Feb 2014 #20

And on that note: Warren DeMontague Feb 2014 #21

First I'm rec'ing this OP. westerebus Feb 2014 #22

Thank you and seems we have something in common. Behind the Aegis Feb 2014 #25

Returning a gesture (of kindness) brings understanding. westerebus Feb 2014 #27

I am in a similar situation to you ... kwassa Feb 2014 #24

Your situation is also an issue. Behind the Aegis Feb 2014 #26

Not to make light or divert, but there is a business, here. Eleanors38 Feb 2014 #32