Men's Group

They simply don't like most sex, but might really enjoy the limited form and amount of sex they have, and probably don't even call sex outside their parameters "sex." I'm thinking not many would every think of having sex multiple times a day every day for years, with someone other than their monogamous partner.

In other words, they likely love sex within the narrow limits they impose on it. Or not.

Fact is, even the biggest prudes don't call themselves anti-sex. The most comical example is the Catholic clergy. No, they're not anti-sex. They just think sex is a mortal sine if you don't have married intercourse only (nor oral sex, no toys), and if you wish to avoid having children, you must have sex only a few day a month. No, that's not anti-sex. The fact that Humanae Vitae, the Vatican's guide to moral birth control, avoids mentioning the word "sex" throughout, instead calling it the "marriage act," doesn't indicate that they're anti-sex at all.

Prudes rarely see their motives as anti-sex, and they will be less than honest at proving they're not. (Everybody lies about sex, that was the first thing sexologists scientifically proved.) Since I can't spy on them without going to jail, I have no way of challenging what any one of them claims about their sex life.

However, you have no way of making assumptions either. However, I will make the hypothesis that if you actually observed their sex lives, they wouldn't be enjoying sex as much as they say, and some few might admit they don't enjoy sex at all and don't know how other people do.