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Trueblue Texan

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98. My dog lost strength in her hind quarters due to...
Tue Jun 30, 2026, 01:29 PM
4 hrs ago

IVDD: intervertebral disc disease. That was about a year ago. The vet wanted me to put her down then, but her cognition was just fine and didn't think it was necessary. She told me I had to rest the dog completely. I did this. For 2 months I carried her out to potty, put her in her bed. My back nearly gave out from all this bending and lifting so I put her dog bed in a beach wagon so I could haul her around the house with me, out to the back yard. We put a strap around her hind quarters to position her to use the bathroom when she went outside. When she was able to walk again, we put outdoor rugs on all the pathways in the house so she didn't have to fight the laminate floors to stay upright.It was a lot of effort, but she got better. She is still with us and I don't know how much longer she will be here--she declines a bit each day, but she is a sweet old lady and we'll do what she needs. When the time comes that she needs to cross over, we will help her do that too, if we need to. It is hard to lose them. God...so hard. But I am grateful for every moment I have with her and all the moments I had with her son, before he transitioned.

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I don't know what to do. [View all] LuckyCharms 23 hrs ago OP
So sorry... regnaD kciN 23 hrs ago #1
You are not alone. We have all had devastating hurts and we can empathize with you. alwaysinasnit 23 hrs ago #2
This message was self-deleted by its author coprolite 19 hrs ago #68
I'm Very Sorry About This, LuckyCharms. That is a Lot to Go Through, Male, Female, Adult, or Child. The Roux Comes First 23 hrs ago #3
Dearest Lucky Niagara 23 hrs ago #4
Grief will always come out Easterncedar 23 hrs ago #5
I'm so sorry for your pain, Lucky Charms. But I am so glad that you've been part of my life erronis 23 hrs ago #6
The best thing about life is that it's short. Haggard Celine 23 hrs ago #7
Our pets are family surfered 23 hrs ago #8
All i have to offer you is a cyber 🫂 mwmisses4289 23 hrs ago #9
I hpoe you can keep him as pain free as mtairyguy 23 hrs ago #10
Gladly LuckyCharms, JMCKUSICK 23 hrs ago #11
In the words of Hunter S. Thompson... SergeStorms 23 hrs ago #12
I don't know any details on you, your dog, and your dog's health. RockCreek 23 hrs ago #13
We love you so much, LC. I wish I could do something to ease your pain. littlemissmartypants 23 hrs ago #14
We can hear your pain thru your words and as the others have said, we send our deepest sadness for you Deuxcents 23 hrs ago #15
Trauma Is Cumulative FrankTC 23 hrs ago #16
Grief is debilitating but don't try to man up Keepthesoulalive 23 hrs ago #17
I hear you. Silver Gaia 23 hrs ago #18
Lucky, you're a god man..I've seen it many times in your posts.. mountain grammy 23 hrs ago #19
I'm sorry to hear your sad news Marthe48 23 hrs ago #20
with the elder gen gone in my family , my middle sis and i feel empty AllaN01Bear 22 hrs ago #21
I am sorry you are experiencing this pain. I send love to you and your, good boy. ShazamIam 22 hrs ago #22
Prayers said for your good boy. hamsterjill 22 hrs ago #23
My Dad died in 2014. Eko 22 hrs ago #24
Your good boy is part of you, maybe even a big part of you FakeNoose 22 hrs ago #25
You go ahead and 'dump' away. OldBaldy1701E 22 hrs ago #26
In the same plane of existence... MiHale 22 hrs ago #27
Lucky, I am in your corner, all of us are. Prairie_Seagull 22 hrs ago #28
I'm so sorry you're going through this. It's always hard to lose a loved one, furry or not. chowder66 22 hrs ago #29
I HATE that our furbabies have such a short lifespan... buzzycrumbhunger 22 hrs ago #30
This part of part of our life sucks, LC. OAITW r.2.0 22 hrs ago #31
Oh sweet Lucky Unwind Your Mind 22 hrs ago #32
🥰 ♥️ 🥰 ♥️ 🥰 ♥️ a kennedy 22 hrs ago #33
Hugs to you. I hope sharing your pain and sorrow helps you. We all will help by listening and hugs. Srkdqltr 22 hrs ago #34
First, I prayed for you and your 'good boy'. Joinfortmill 22 hrs ago #35
I think you have this right. LuckyCharms 20 hrs ago #60
I understand. Very similar experiences and emotions. Very painful. Evolve Dammit 22 hrs ago #36
emotions need to be felt Kali 22 hrs ago #37
Holding you in my heart. You are NOT alone, many of us do understand. n/t TygrBright 22 hrs ago #38
I'm with you... S/V Loner 21 hrs ago #39
I'm so sorry. Trauma is hard to deal with Phoenix61 21 hrs ago #40
Please Google "can a dog's hind legs weaken from B 12 deficiency?" xuplate 21 hrs ago #41
My dog lost strength in her hind quarters due to... Trueblue Texan 4 hrs ago #98
You are not weak. It takes strength to let yourself feel and care for others the way you do. MLAA 21 hrs ago #42
Previous profession... SuzyandPuffpuff 21 hrs ago #43
Hang in there LC. NoMoreRepugs 21 hrs ago #44
You're not weak, Lucky. You're strong, and caring, and because you care, saying goodbye to loved highplainsdem 21 hrs ago #45
I have lent an ear...listened. sprinkleeninow 21 hrs ago #46
Hopefully by purging and expressing, you're healing yourself. SleeplessinSoCal 21 hrs ago #47
I feel all your pain and pray that The Universe gives you the strength to weather LoisB 21 hrs ago #48
Simple reply fxp1956 21 hrs ago #49
Welcome to DU LetMyPeopleVote 2 hrs ago #100
We have an obligation to the companion animals we have invited to share our lives. pat_k 21 hrs ago #50
Since the pandemic... LuckyCharms 21 hrs ago #51
My partner and I spent a long night "camped" on our living room floor with our K.D. on her last night. pat_k 20 hrs ago #61
My wife is sleeping on the couch tonight... LuckyCharms 20 hrs ago #65
May you all find connection and some peace tonight. pat_k 19 hrs ago #70
We lost 2 senior labs within days of each other a couple of years ago - TBF 20 hrs ago #52
My wonderful Lucky UpInArms 20 hrs ago #53
Sometimes... LuckyCharms 20 hrs ago #58
Loosing my 17 year old baby a year after my Dad BigmanPigman 20 hrs ago #54
I would like that information , Bigman... Trueblue Texan 17 hrs ago #77
Yes, I'll do that. BigmanPigman 8 hrs ago #90
I hear ya.. Permanut 20 hrs ago #55
34 years for me... LuckyCharms 20 hrs ago #66
I'm so glad EuterpeThelo 12 hrs ago #85
I'm so sorry. I have no suggestions, just a sincere wish you find some relief Scrivener7 20 hrs ago #56
I'm so sorry for your pain annielion 20 hrs ago #57
I hear and see you Lifeafter70 20 hrs ago #59
Sending you my Faux pas 20 hrs ago #62
I'm so sorry. Knowing that life is HARD when people actually care about people and animals and life on earth doesn't Exp 20 hrs ago #63
I'm both sorry and I completely understand cate94 20 hrs ago #64
Keep on doing your best, amigo JoseBalow 20 hrs ago #67
Sorry to hear you are loosing another member of your family coprolite 19 hrs ago #69
My dear sweet LuckyCharms , I will continue to keep you in my rosary prayers. . Love, debm55 debm55 19 hrs ago #71
Life is by no means fair or easy. Take it easy on yourself because you have given it your all . waterwatcher123 19 hrs ago #72
You don't have to know what to do. Tanuki 18 hrs ago #73
Big hugs, and a shoulder to cry on for you, Lucky Bayard 18 hrs ago #74
Listen, LuckyCharms. yardwork 18 hrs ago #75
I am saying a prayer for you... Trueblue Texan 17 hrs ago #76
My heart goes out to you orangecrush 17 hrs ago #78
I don't really know you aside from your posts but.. BlueSpot 17 hrs ago #79
I feel the pain and love in your post slightlv 17 hrs ago #80
I'm ao sorry, Lucky Charms. HeartsCanHope 16 hrs ago #81
Just love him. Figarosmom 15 hrs ago #82
🙏 demosincebirth 15 hrs ago #83
I'd suggest Walkin' Wheels pet wheelchairs or something similar for him but it sounds like blue_jay 14 hrs ago #84
Trauma and reliving trauma Laurelin 9 hrs ago #86
Prayers going out NewLarry 9 hrs ago #87
Your blubbering is taking it like a good man TexLaProgressive 8 hrs ago #88
Dear, dear LuckyCharms Erda 8 hrs ago #89
God bless you and your beloved pup. The Human Condition is a..... ColoringFool 6 hrs ago #91
(((hugs))) samnsara 6 hrs ago #92
Love you, Lucky. Harker 6 hrs ago #93
Love you too, Harker. LuckyCharms 6 hrs ago #94
I'm sorry, but I can only manage thoughts of your Good Boy in small bursts. BobTheSubgenius 4 hrs ago #95
Lucky, You are absolutely WhiteTara 4 hrs ago #96
I'm so sorry about Tashi... LuckyCharms 3 hrs ago #99
I'm so sorry. area51 4 hrs ago #97
It's never too late for therapy. ShazzieB 2 hrs ago #101
Talking about it today with a trusted group.... FarPoint 36 min ago #102
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