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and she was a junior. After I failed to convince her to attend the college that I had committed to, I somehow managed to have her consider one that was acceptable to both of us. Consequently, I made the rash decision to transfer to this institution in the Spring of my freshman year (in hindsight, I would not recommend for anyone to let a romantic relationship determine their choices for higher eduction if they value their emotional well-being, mental health, and career options). Two years after she graduated in1982 we got married (again, not recommended until both partners are mature enough for such a commitment and financially stable). However despite some marital struggles over the years, we've stayed married, raised two wonderful (usually) children, evolved both personally and as a couple, and are happily enjoying our respective retirements together. Must have been fate - which I firmly believe it was so.