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Coolgoober

(256 posts)
42. I've Known My Wife Since we Were 13
Tue Feb 10, 2026, 11:44 AM
23 hrs ago

7th grade. We didn't really meet. We just kind of got acquainted through others. We were just friends (I had a crush on her)we would hang out and talk mostly at school. In the summer Between 8th and 9th grade we would talk on phone and sometimes walk half mile to meet each other then we would walk to my house and hang out. We were young and my parents both worked but hey we were just friends, right? Yeah until that one time I walked her home and she kissed me(I was really shy) oh what a kiss. It was a doozy. After a couple more kisses came heartbreak. I went to a different high school. Naturally at that age we kind of just hung out with our own peeps. We still lived a mile apart but it might as well been a hundred. Ok, this is getting really long. I'll try to shorten up. We would see each other from time to time and talk. At the end of 10 grade I got my driver's license. Right of passage, right. I saw her a couple times that summer, even gave her some rides. So when the next school year started I jump on the first opportunity to invite her to a dance, then a party or two and then to my house. More kisses. But she had guys chasing her at her school and I had girls chasing me from my school. So we would go out once in a while and have a blast, but we were not exclusive. Senior year came and people at both our schools knew we were a couple. So we made it official, we were going steady. Then we went to different colleges but I was stubborn, I wasn't letting her get away. Again it was hard and again we dated other people. That didn't last long and we were back together. Then I really threw a wrench in the whole thing. College wasn't for me so I dropped out and joined the Marine Corps. I spent every waking moment with her for the ten days leave I had after basic training. We talked about marriage but nothing definite. Then about five months later after some schooling and I knew where I'd be stationed. I took a 96 hrs leave, flew home asked her to marry me. We got married in fall of 82 so 43 years and counting. Sorry so long but trust me ,I gave you the abbreviated version. Thanks for asking, debm55

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I Met My Husband in 1985 Deep State Witch Yesterday #1
Thank you very much for sharing with us. Deep State Witch. Congratulations. debm55 Yesterday #2
We met in 1978 RainCaster Yesterday #3
Congratulations to you and Mrs. RainCaster. debm55 Yesterday #5
54 years, Dec. 18th, 1971 gab13by13 Yesterday #4
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Met my husband in 1977 MANative Yesterday #6
Congratulations to you and Mr.MANative. debm55 Yesterday #8
We got married in 1984! FM123 Yesterday #9
Very beautiful. Congratulations to both of you. debm55 Yesterday #11
43 and 1/2 for me and Mrs. Canon CanonRay Yesterday #10
Congradulations to you and Mrs.Canon. debm55 Yesterday #12
We've been together 48 years. woodsprite Yesterday #13
Gradulations, to you woodsprite and to Mr, Woodsprite. You have shared a long and loving journey together. debm55 Yesterday #15
Together 39 years, married 36 years OLDMDDEM Yesterday #14
Thank you very much much for sharing your journey of love with us. debm55 Yesterday #16
... also 39 years here ... surrealAmerican 17 hrs ago #73
Thank you very much for sharing with us, surrealAmerican. debm55 1 hr ago #74
47 yrs it will be on Valentine's Day 2026. flor-de-jasmim Yesterday #17
Thank you very much for sharing your Journey of love with us. flor-de-jasmin. And an early happy anniversary to you both debm55 Yesterday #31
Mrs and I met in February 1968 and married in December 1968... LakeVermilion Yesterday #18
Congratulations Lake Vermilion and Mrs. LakeVermilion on your 58 years of sharing your journey together. debm55 23 hrs ago #33
I was going to wait until next year and post something... Tikki Yesterday #19
Wow, Tikki! That's tremendous! True Dough Yesterday #22
Congratulations to the Tikki's for sharing 59 years together in your journey of love and life. debm55 23 hrs ago #34
never been AllaN01Bear Yesterday #20
Congratulation, to you Bear. Married life for many is not easy, which accounts for the high divorce rate. You have debm55 23 hrs ago #37
ive seen some very bad marrages in my life and i have seen some good ones . AllaN01Bear 23 hrs ago #40
Yes, I lived in a house where my parents did not have a good marriage. It was terrible. But for various religious reason debm55 21 hrs ago #57
I got single again... 2naSalit Yesterday #21
You were a trend setter MontanaMama Yesterday #26
Ha! 2naSalit 23 hrs ago #32
Congratulations to you, 2naSalit. Have fun with your me time. debm55 21 hrs ago #59
I do... 2naSalit 21 hrs ago #60
Great. As the oldest, same here. But Rich and I adopted a son. debm55 20 hrs ago #63
That's much different... 2naSalit 20 hrs ago #65
47 also iamateacher Yesterday #23
Congratulations to you and Mr. iamateacher .Continue your journey of love and life together. debm55 20 hrs ago #64
Mrs Happy and I have been together since 1976. HappyH Yesterday #24
HAHAHHAHahaHHAHAHAH. Thank you and congratulations to you and Mrs. Happy. May your journey together be of love. debm55 20 hrs ago #66
Mr. MTMama and I were married in July 1995 MontanaMama Yesterday #25
Congratulations Mr, and Mrs. MT, Continue your journey of love and life. debm55 20 hrs ago #67
Since 1976 Bmoboy Yesterday #27
Total 46 years. Climate Crusader Yesterday #28
We met the day after Christmas 1976. Turbineguy Yesterday #29
Started living together '76 BarbaRosa Yesterday #30
In April will be 25 yrs :) TBF 23 hrs ago #35
We started dating in November of 1992. Dulcinea 23 hrs ago #36
Congratulations my friend, Dulcinea and to Mr. Dulcinea. for your 29 year journey of love and life together. debm55 23 hrs ago #38
50 even last month justaprogressive 23 hrs ago #39
36 years. Solly Mack 23 hrs ago #41
I've Known My Wife Since we Were 13 Coolgoober 23 hrs ago #42
Congradulations to both you and Mrs.Coolgoober. What a wonderful post of your journey of love and life is. . Thank you debm55 22 hrs ago #50
Married 28 years, together for 32 years. Mad_Dem_X 23 hrs ago #43
Congratulations, Mad_Dem_X and your SO treasure your journey of love and life together debm55 22 hrs ago #48
Together for 37 years, married for 36. subterranean 23 hrs ago #44
Congratulations, May you and your SO continue on the journey of love and life. debm55 22 hrs ago #47
Met 40 years ago and married 37 years in May ! kimbutgar 23 hrs ago #45
Congratulations to you and Mr. kimbutgar. May you continue your journey of love and life together. debm55 22 hrs ago #46
50 years on February 14th Emile 22 hrs ago #49
A little over 21 years now. RandySF 22 hrs ago #51
This is my second marriage. pandr32 22 hrs ago #52
Married 40 years, but together for a total of 44 years. lucca18 22 hrs ago #53
Thank you very much, lucca, And Congratulations to you and Mrs.lucca for 44 years together on your journey of love and debm55 21 hrs ago #55
Married 46 Years in 33 Days ProfessorGAC 21 hrs ago #54
Been married 47 years kacekwl 21 hrs ago #56
Met in '73, married in '78. cloudbase 21 hrs ago #58
Married for 53 years...together for 57... MiHale 21 hrs ago #61
Met in February of '82. Married 3 months later. After 42 years, lost him to cancer in Oct. 24. Dorothy V 21 hrs ago #62
I'm so sorry for your loss, Dorothy V. MIButterfly 1 hr ago #81
We've been together for 28 years 🙂 Luciferous 20 hrs ago #68
My amazing hubby and I have been together since 2000. OldBaldy1701E 20 hrs ago #69
Congratulations to you and Rich, debm55! dlilafae 19 hrs ago #70
Together as a couple - 56 years. Married -- 51 years this month. retread 18 hrs ago #71
I started dating my future wife in 1975 during my senior year of high school... Wuddles440 18 hrs ago #72
Thank you very much for your wonderful post. And may you and Mrs. Wuddles440 continue your journey of love and life debm55 1 hr ago #75
And congratulations to you and your husband too! Wuddles440 1 hr ago #80
Thank you, Wuddles440 debm55 58 min ago #84
In June it will be 49 years Endlessmike56 1 hr ago #76
Thank you very much for sharing with us, Endlessmike56, We had a June wedding too. May you and Mrs.Endlessmike56 debm55 1 hr ago #78
Married for 48 in May - time flies!! walkingman 1 hr ago #77
Thank you very much, walkingman. for sharing with us. May you and Mrs. walkingman, continue to share your journey of debm55 54 min ago #86
Married 51 years this coming March. A couple livetohike 1 hr ago #79
Married to a Rich for 29 yrs, together for 33 Pisces 1 hr ago #82
Thank you very much , Pisces, for sharing with us. May you and Rich continue to share your journey of love and life debm55 1 hr ago #83
I don't have a SO and have never been married. MIButterfly 56 min ago #85
Love you MiButterfly. And thank you for your kind words. Not every is meant to be married. And so be it. You are who you debm55 3 min ago #89
Mr Ninga and I will b married 66 years July 10th. Ninga 35 min ago #87
Congratulations, Ninga for sharing with us. May you and Mr. Ninga continue your journey of love and happiness. debm55 11 min ago #88
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