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thucythucy

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135. Yup, and the district in fact
Mon Feb 2, 2026, 10:49 AM
Feb 2026

did send folks to my house.

Only on a few occasions though.

It was no great loss for me, and I think a relief for them when I said they really didn't have to bother.

I did use some of my newly won free time frequenting my public library. I had this absurd idea to read every work of poetry in its collection, alphabetically, though I skipped around a bit. I got as far as Gregory Corso--in the C's, not the G's, then skipped forward to Allen Ginsberg, after which I gave up out of my inherent laziness. Had fun though. Plus one of the librarians would lay out cookies for me when she saw me coming--I looked like a wastrel, mondo undernourished--as long as I sat and ate them in front of her, and then wiped my hands before heading into the stacks.

Also read most if not all the collection on popular music, also fun.

Sorry if this is too much information. I had what people might call "a difficult adolescence"--but then, that's true for most of us, isn't it?

Best wishes.

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When to both my junior and senior proms with two different guys. sinkingfeeling Jan 2026 #1
Thank you for sharing, sinkingfeeling. debm55 Jan 2026 #2
Yes. First year as a waiter. Then the Junior and Senior Proms. OLDMDDEM Jan 2026 #3
Thank you very much for sharing with us, OLDMDDEM debm55 Jan 2026 #4
Nope... regnaD kciN Jan 2026 #5
Thank you. very much, regnaD kciN. for sharing with us. debm55 Jan 2026 #16
Yes, I went with my high school girlfriend CanonRay Jan 2026 #6
Thank you very much, CanonRay for sharing. debm55 Jan 2026 #17
Nope Wicked Blue Jan 2026 #7
Thank you for sharing my friend. Wicked Blue. debm55 Jan 2026 #18
Nope. Wasn't asked. As I recall I didn't care because it was more fun going out partying with my friends. Vinca Jan 2026 #8
HAHAHHAHHAAHAHA. Thank you Vinca. There were so many groups at my high school---jocks, geeks, nerds, freaks. I was a debm55 Jan 2026 #20
Nope. I am a survivor of evangelical parents..no dancing, no "jungle" music. Just waiting for the rapture Deuxcents Jan 2026 #9
OH MY, What a bummer. We should both wite a book. debm55 Jan 2026 #21
Yeah! My birth father was a fun loving man, played his guitar and loved life..nothing like the man my mother Deuxcents Jan 2026 #23
Thank you , dear Deuxcents. debm55 Jan 2026 #40
I know, right? wendyb-NC Feb 2026 #131
Thank you wendyb-NC. debm55 Feb 2026 #132
Went to junior prom in PA then moved to CA where I was too poor to afford a LoisB Jan 2026 #10
Thank you for sharing, LoisB. I felt sad at the time. Very sad. My Senior Center is planning a Prom/Valentines Dance. debm55 Jan 2026 #41
I hope you have a fabulous time. LoisB Feb 2026 #88
Thank you, LoisB. debm55 Feb 2026 #123
Didn't go to... 2naSalit Jan 2026 #11
Thank you, my friend, for sharing with us. debm55 Jan 2026 #42
Didn't miss anything since... 2naSalit Jan 2026 #48
Thank you, 2naSalit. debm55 Jan 2026 #70
Didn't want to be bothered with it. lpbk2713 Jan 2026 #12
Thank you , Ipbk2713, No Prom or reunion. I had my group of friends I talk to occasionally. Don't need to fake it and debm55 Jan 2026 #43
Nope....no regrets. anciano Jan 2026 #13
Thank you, anciano for sharing with us. I have to admit at the time, taking those pictures for my cousin , that my debm55 Jan 2026 #44
Went with a skeevy guy oberle Jan 2026 #14
This message was self-deleted by its author Dear_Prudence Jan 2026 #38
Similar experience. Dear_Prudence Jan 2026 #39
That is gross. debm55 Jan 2026 #45
ours was cancelled AllaN01Bear Jan 2026 #15
May I ask why? debm55 Jan 2026 #46
somebody did somethingg bad. AllaN01Bear Feb 2026 #76
Thank you Bear. debm55 Feb 2026 #78
No. surrealAmerican Jan 2026 #19
Thank you surrealAmerican. I was on the Honor Roll, Student Council, Diving and Basketball teams. but I had always debm55 Jan 2026 #47
I went. Didn't enjoy it. Wore a hideous tuxedo. I still cringe whenever I think about it. Borogove Jan 2026 #22
Thank you Borogove, my friend. Didn't they take pictures of the happy couple? debm55 Jan 2026 #49
I went to two senior proms, Deb. LuckyCharms Jan 2026 #24
Oh Lucky, that is funny, Thank you for making me smile. debm55 Jan 2026 #50
I had a rather embarrassing time when it came to high school dances. Aristus Jan 2026 #25
High school is difficult even for some of the so-called popular kids biophile Jan 2026 #32
Hugs to you, Aristus. Great post. PS I was going to put "Did you go to the Prom?" on your ask me anything thread. debm55 Jan 2026 #72
Asked and answered! Aristus Feb 2026 #79
Thank you very much. Aristus debm55 Feb 2026 #103
I did not. I was a nerd and a social leper who never got asked to anything. Ocelot II Jan 2026 #26
Thank you Ocelot II, I agree with you. I liked my subjects and activities at HS and the real but few friends. I had, The debm55 Feb 2026 #77
Not me.I loathed everything about high school and every minute I spent there. Ocelot II Feb 2026 #80
Sorry, my dear Ocelot II debm55 Feb 2026 #104
Went to my Junior prom. Missed my Senior prom livetohike Jan 2026 #27
That's a bummer about the job. Thank you for sharing with us, livetohike. debm55 Feb 2026 #102
I did...with my "steady girlfriend" ...in hindsight that was so dumb (steady girl friend). walkingman Jan 2026 #28
Thank you very much, walkingman. I remember girls wearing their steady boyfriends big HS rings. I though it was odd. debm55 Feb 2026 #107
This message was self-deleted by its author wcmagumba Jan 2026 #29
HAHAHHAHAAHHAH. Thank you wcmagumba for sharing with us. debm55 Feb 2026 #108
I Did ProfessorGAC Jan 2026 #30
Thank you very much for sharing with us. ProfessorGAC. Sounds like you all had a great time. debm55 Feb 2026 #109
It Didn't Suck ProfessorGAC Feb 2026 #119
Thank you ProfessorGAC for your words of wisdom. debm55 Feb 2026 #121
You bet. Went to his Junior prom and my Junior prom and his Senior prom and my Senior prom. hedda_foil Jan 2026 #31
Thank you very much, hedda_foil for sharing with us. debm55 Feb 2026 #110
Senior Prom Bayard Jan 2026 #33
Great post, Bayard. I was the same way. Did a lot of school activities. But was not so good making boyfriends. I had debm55 Feb 2026 #112
I took my girlfriend to my senior prom. Americanme Jan 2026 #34
Thank you very much, for sharing with us, Americanme. It sounds like you had a great time. debm55 Feb 2026 #113
Yes, I went. I asked a guy friend in my art class TexasBushwhacker Jan 2026 #35
Thank you TexasBushwhacker for sharing . That does sound like fun. At my school , the Prom was mostly for couples going debm55 Feb 2026 #114
No one asked me for either one The Blue Flower Jan 2026 #36
If you are , then I am too. Figure it this way, The Blue Flower, someone at our missed out on some interesting Prom debm55 Feb 2026 #115
Nope sakabatou Jan 2026 #37
Thank you very much for sharing with us, sakabatou. I understand. I take meds for it now. debm55 Jan 2026 #69
I've tried taking meds sakabatou Feb 2026 #75
Thank you sakabatou. debm55 Feb 2026 #116
Not mine but lonely bird Jan 2026 #51
Thank you very much, lonely bird for sharing with us. I felt the same. I tried but it seemed I had an "L" on my head. debm55 Jan 2026 #67
Same here lonely bird Feb 2026 #90
Thank you very much for sharing with us. lonely bird. debm55 Feb 2026 #124
I did senior year sdfernando Jan 2026 #52
Was that the after-Prom? Thank you very much for sharing with us. debm55 Jan 2026 #56
It was the Prom sdfernando Jan 2026 #66
Thank you very much, sdfernando. That sounds wonderful. debm55 Feb 2026 #83
Went to my senior prom. Spent more of it Demobrat Jan 2026 #53
Oh you. HAHAHAHA, Thank you very much for sharing, Demobrat. debm55 Jan 2026 #54
No. gay texan Jan 2026 #55
Thank you gay texan. I guess I felt bad because of my cousin. Volunteering me to take pictures of her and her date. I debm55 Jan 2026 #59
Good for you , gay texan. debm55 Jan 2026 #64
My boyfriend (now hubby) and I went to the Sr Ball & Banquet and the Prom. woodsprite Jan 2026 #57
Thank you very much, woodsprite. What a great post. I feel the same about the friends I had too. I was sorry I paid for debm55 Jan 2026 #63
I went to an all girls high school kimbutgar Jan 2026 #58
Thank you very much, kimbutgar. I bet you did look great. Great post. debm55 Jan 2026 #61
Went steady through high school.. Permanut Jan 2026 #60
Oh Permanut. I am very sorry, At the time it must have hurt like heck. But it opened you up to find a real and lasting debm55 Jan 2026 #62
My very first date, at age 15 when I was a freshman, was an upper classman's Jr Prom. 3catwoman3 Jan 2026 #65
Hahahahahahaha. That's funny 3catwoman3. debm55 Jan 2026 #68
I went to my senior prom with my high school sweetheart. Dulcinea Jan 2026 #71
HAAHAHAHAHHAHAHAH. That is funny. Thank you for sharing with us. Dulcinea. debm55 Feb 2026 #118
Yes, Jr. and Sr. Proms with my boyfriend now husband. Tikki Jan 2026 #73
Thank you very much, Tikki for sharing you with us. debm55 Feb 2026 #100
Never went to one fargone Jan 2026 #74
That is wonderful, fargone . Thank you for your romantic post. I love it. debm55 Feb 2026 #101
Never went to any. thucythucy Feb 2026 #81
I sorry that happened to you. You know School Districts are obligated to send you a tutor.during that home time. debm55 Feb 2026 #82
Yup, and the district in fact thucythucy Feb 2026 #135
Thank you , thucythucy for sharing with us. I enjoyed reading your post. debm55 Feb 2026 #136
Went to mine IbogaProject Feb 2026 #84
Thank you very much for sharing with us. IbogaProject. I had 700 in my Senior Class. so it was hard not to miss the debm55 Feb 2026 #99
Nope. Mme. Defarge Feb 2026 #85
Great, Mme. Defarge. That sounds so much better than the Prom. Good for you. debm55 Feb 2026 #98
Never did LogDog75 Feb 2026 #86
Thank you for sharing with us. LogDog75. I had wished I could peacefully stay home at the time. debm55 Feb 2026 #97
I never went to any high school events and otherwise did my best to be invisible. hunter Feb 2026 #87
Thank you hunter for your wonderful post. I too had enough credits to graduate in 11th grade. and go to college. School debm55 Feb 2026 #96
No I had a baby in high school maptap22 Feb 2026 #89
Thank you my dear, maptap22. debm55 Feb 2026 #95
Nope. I was an outcast; nobody asked me Mad_Dem_X Feb 2026 #91
That is beautiful . Thank you you for sharing with us. debm55 Feb 2026 #94
No. I was too awkward to approach anyone of the opposite sex. retread Feb 2026 #92
Thank you for sharing retread. debm55 Feb 2026 #93
Went all out for senior prom Bluestocking Feb 2026 #105
That sounds wonderful, Thank you very much for sharing with us, Bluestocking. debm55 Feb 2026 #122
;-{) Don't remind me.... Goonch Feb 2026 #106
How sweet. Thank you for sharing, Goonch. You look so young. debm55 Feb 2026 #111
I went to two. malthaussen Feb 2026 #117
Thank you very much for sharing with us, Mal. You are a great person stepping in for both Proms. debm55 Feb 2026 #120
I didn't go wendyb-NC Feb 2026 #125
Thank you very much for sharing with us. wendyb-NC. debm55 Feb 2026 #128
I got the measles and missed it. pfitz59 Feb 2026 #126
Thank you very much, pfitz59, I would just be lucky that you are alive. debm55 Feb 2026 #129
No prom for me. pandr32 Feb 2026 #127
HAHHAHHAHAHAH. Thank you pandr32 for sharing with us. debm55 Feb 2026 #130
No, and I'm thankful I didn't. subterranean Feb 2026 #133
I felt the same. My first date was at 18 and I would have had an imaginary date too. I see these stretch limos and debm55 Feb 2026 #134
I went to both junior and senior prom. Same girl. flvegan Feb 2026 #137
Thank you very much, fivegan, for sharing with us. debm55 Feb 2026 #138
No but I was invited justaprogressive Feb 2026 #139
To backward in the Social skills to do that , debm55 Feb 2026 #140
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