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highplainsdem

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31. I don't believe we die. And I'm not saying that because of any religion's teachings. I don't believe one's
Fri Jan 30, 2026, 03:15 AM
Jan 2026

religious beliefs, or lack of belief, matters.

I'm saying that based on near death experiences that I've heard and read about, and paranormal experiences (really the wrong word, since they're normal and pretty common) that I've had, that people I know have had, or that I've learned about. If you've ever been in a grief support group, you've probably heard of such experiences. You're likely to hear about them, too, from hospice workers, or from nurses. You usually won't hear about them, though, unless people feel that it would be OK to talk about their own experiences.

https://www.businessinsider.com/near-death-experiences-research-doctor-life-after-death-afterlife-2023-8

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Jeffrey_Long

There have been some threads in the Lounge about paranormal experiences.

You can run across stories of paranormal experiences in biographies and autobiographies. The Johnny Cash autobiography cowritten by Patrick Carr, for instance. Producer Tony Visconti's autobiography.

You can always try to dismiss the stories...but I've heard stories like this from people in lots of different occupations, from different religious backgrounds, or with no religious beliefs at all. It often took a personal experience to end their skepticism. The people I've found most unwilling to.accept these experiences are avowed atheists and people with very set religious beliefs who don't feel paranormal experiences can fit with their church's teachings.

Some links you might find interesting:

https://med.virginia.edu/perceptual-studies/

https://youtube.com/@uvadivisionofperceptualstu9909

You'll see some videos with John Cleese on that YouTube channel, and here:

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What happens when you die? [View all] LogDog75 Jan 2026 OP
In the Army, the saying was " when you're dead, you're dead." surfered Jan 2026 #1
Let the mystery be/Iris deMent cbabe Jan 2026 #2
Only one right answer. Irish_Dem Jan 2026 #3
Yikes Grim Chieftain Jan 2026 #4
Like bubbles in a glass of champagne. multigraincracker Jan 2026 #5
I like the lines from 1982 film Blade Runner, Rutger Hauer... mitch96 Jan 2026 #14
Keanu Reeves said that the people who love you will miss you. That's as good an answer as any other. ms liberty Jan 2026 #6
ms liberty........... Upthevibe Jan 2026 #60
To me, it is a question of soul survival, and if we are all that we perceive through our brains and senses, or if there Doodley Jan 2026 #7
The same thing that was happening before you were born. BlueTsunami2018 Jan 2026 #8
We play saxophone for an all female cabaret Coventina Jan 2026 #9
We return to the universe. gab13by13 Jan 2026 #10
Ashes to ashes. Dust to dust. It all dissipates into the elements we're made of..Star stuff, as Carl Sagan says Deuxcents Jan 2026 #11
I love that line... We are all stardust..nt mitch96 Jan 2026 #15
Heaven Norrrm Jan 2026 #12
SPOILER ALERT! True Dough Jan 2026 #13
Thanks for that..good company, for sure Deuxcents Jan 2026 #17
you can find out if you want to NJCher Jan 2026 #16
Neurons cease to function. lpbk2713 Jan 2026 #18
72 virgins? Intractable Jan 2026 #19
My idea of heaven and hell--what happens after you die. In college I made a tapestry weaving. I went to the yarn store a debm55 Jan 2026 #20
Hi Deb, I love your description. Coventina Jan 2026 #23
Thank you very much, Coventina. Your concept sounds wonderful debm55 Jan 2026 #37
I agree with you Skittles Jan 2026 #21
After watching The Good Place TV Show Inkey Jan 2026 #32
I don't have a problem with people who need to believe otherwise Skittles Jan 2026 #33
Niagara's unofficial DU Will & Testament Niagara Jan 2026 #22
You could donate your body to the Body Farmm LogDog75 Jan 2026 #26
This body farm can retrieve a body for 100 miles but there would be transportation cost of additional 459 miles Niagara Jan 2026 #42
Dr. Bass started that. I was interested in that field as Graduate work. Wonderful work they do there. debm55 Jan 2026 #63
You sound like someone True Dough Jan 2026 #39
For sure, True Niagara Jan 2026 #43
If I think too long about this life sestina Jan 2026 #24
I'll never know... Iggo Jan 2026 #25
The miracle of us being here happened once. Why shouldn't it happen again? And again? Doodley Jan 2026 #27
I believe we'll be recycled Shambala Jan 2026 #28
Mark Twain markodochartaigh Jan 2026 #29
I loved the answer to this question that Keanu Reeves gave: catbyte Jan 2026 #30
I don't believe we die. And I'm not saying that because of any religion's teachings. I don't believe one's highplainsdem Jan 2026 #31
Great post! SheltieLover Jan 2026 #35
Thanks for the reply, SheltieLover, and the book recommendations! highplainsdem Jan 2026 #48
Yw, HPD SheltieLover Jan 2026 #50
Thanks for this post and the links. sestina Jan 2026 #46
You're welcome, and I'm glad you had those comforting signs. Please don't doubt them - you highplainsdem Jan 2026 #53
Thanks for your reply with all of the links and sestina Jan 2026 #59
This message was self-deleted by its author sestina Jan 2026 #47
This message was self-deleted by its author SheltieLover Jan 2026 #34
I have no idea. OldBaldy1701E Jan 2026 #36
You quit breathing. Emile Jan 2026 #38
Many, many people take your place. The universe doesn't care.... chouchou Jan 2026 #40
Or burn you justaprogressive Jan 2026 #41
If the First Law of Thermodynamics is correct mnhtnbb Jan 2026 #44
I do not expect to remember dying. As for nothingness... NNadir Jan 2026 #45
What happens when you are put under general anesthetic? Where do "you" go? LudwigPastorius Jan 2026 #49
Probably the best answer. bluestarone Jan 2026 #62
The energy that sparked our life Figarosmom Jan 2026 #51
Life itself is such a mystery , magical and miraculous dweller Jan 2026 #52
Great post... anciano Jan 2026 #57
When I die? Cirsium Jan 2026 #54
That's a quote by Dr. Ray Stantz (Dan Aykroyd) from Ghostbusters LogDog75 Jan 2026 #56
ding ding ding Cirsium Jan 2026 #58
The question should be "Where were you BEFORE you were born?" no_hypocrisy Jan 2026 #55
LogDog75...Kicking for when I'm ready to post - "What happens when you die." N/T Upthevibe Jan 2026 #61
Well, possibly Morbius Jan 2026 #64
"...you end up in a steam bath and the Puerto Rican janitor is actually God." LudwigPastorius Feb 2026 #67
I like the Eastern religions' take on it. Dulcinea Feb 2026 #65
I knd of like the theme of the movie Defending Your Life LogDog75 Feb 2026 #66
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