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lark

(25,137 posts)
24. Good job with changing your habits to improve your health.
Wed May 21, 2025, 01:20 PM
May 21

Changing habits is hard! About 6 years ago, I was majorly stressed by my drug addicted semi-homeless son and lost 50 lbs. For the first 30 I was good with it, wanted to lose weight. But then I hit my goal and kept losing. It got so I couldn't eat and ended up scrawny and very wrinkled and sick. I got my anxiety and stress under much better control, due to adding Buspirone and Cymbalta and felt amazingly better and could eat again! Yay!

Of course, I gained way too much weight back. I love sweets, crave them! So now I've started eliminating things I added like Irish Cream with my coffee, low calorie whole wheat bread vs bakery bread, and ice cream. I've also added prunes for more fiber and switched to organic stevia since my coffee has to be sweetened! I also eliminated red meat except 2x month and no big steaks when I have meat. We eat shrimp and fish weekly. I'm not wanting to get thin, not at 73. I just want to be a healthy weight and with surgery coming up for my shoulder, I know my excercise is going to be very limited and it would be easy to gain even more weight and then my clothes won't fit - so working on being sure that doesn't happen. I

t's not easy to change your diet, but it can be done.

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This is the way k_buddy762 May 21 #1
I was on 'death's doorstep' for nearly 2 years IrishBubbaLiberal May 21 #8
Congrats on the changes. Lochloosa May 21 #2
Good for you. Being, acting, eating healthy,... magicarpet May 21 #3
Recently I've started eating sardines too. beveeheart May 21 #4
I eat with a 'salad' of avocados and ripe tomatoes w/ olive oil IrishBubbaLiberal May 21 #9
i throw my sardines on a tortilla chip & douse them with hot sauce if i can't find Native May 21 #23
That's the way to do it. And it can be done without making yourself miserable. The pay-off is incredible. Midnight Writer May 21 #5
Youre a role model for us !!!!!! Thanks for proving it can be done ! Karadeniz May 21 #6
Congratulations on getting a handle on your diet and exercise. surrealAmerican May 21 #7
make your own bread, sourdough is fun to make and you don't use much salt Shellback Squid May 21 #10
Added bonus: it fills the house with wonderful scents! calimary May 21 #18
That's how you deal with aging. Thank you for sharing the steps you're taking - very doable. AnotherMother4Peace May 21 #11
Good for you. xuplate May 21 #12
Good for you! Richluu May 21 #13
Have you tried freeze-dried strawberries EverHopeful May 21 #14
Good for you. Keep it up. LoisB May 21 #15
That's wonderful! pandr32 May 21 #16
That is great! (n/t) OldBaldy1701E May 21 #17
Good on ya, Irish Bubba! Very proud of you! colorado_ufo May 21 #19
Thx IrishBubbaLiberal May 21 #25
Excellent 👍👍 lifestyle changes are difficult but you will feel better TommieMommy May 21 #20
Recipe for success. . . . nt Bernardo de La Paz May 21 #21
You give me hope. Zackzzzz May 21 #22
Like this Emmental President brand, low sodium IrishBubbaLiberal May 21 #26
Good job with changing your habits to improve your health. lark May 21 #24
Good going Jilly_in_VA May 21 #27
Thx IrishBubbaLiberal May 21 #28
Think about walking sticks/trekking poles. Zackzzzz May 21 #29
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