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BigmanPigman

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91. Good luck...
Mon Apr 21, 2025, 02:26 AM
Apr 2025

I am rapidly getting dementia. Simple words and simple math have become more difficult within the past year. My Prim Care Doctor wasn't alarmed but I can tell there is definitely a big change.

I tried to find out how to renew my Dr License last week and after 2 1/2 hours on the useless DMV web site I gave up on trying to figure out why they would not let me make an appointment. Finally I went to Reddit for some decent info. It seems that you can renew it on line only 2 consecutive times in CA. Why doesn't their web site say that?!?!?!?

Then, to make "an appointment" there is more confusion (naturally). I have no idea what to do and I live only 2 blocks from the DMV. I "think" you have to go in to the DMV with some secret code on your phone and once you get into the DMV you show someone/something your cell phone secret code and that is supposed to be your "appointment". It sounds bogus. I assume that I will have to stand in line for 2 hours just to be told that it is incorrect and I need to stand in at least one more line. Since I literally live a 5 minute walk away it would be easier to wait at home and walk over once my "secret appointment number" at my appointment time. Since this is the CA DMV they do NOT make sense at all and love to torture people. The DMV are sadists!

I hope your local DMV is run better than mine. I have to get a new photo and eye test. This will take an entire day since the DMV lines are literally around the block and have been since 1988 when I moved here.

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I was diagnoised in 2013... [View all] Omaha Steve Apr 2025 OP
I wish you the best Shellback Squid Apr 2025 #1
Thank you for sharing and providing the link. You are a huge asset here at DU and to the Democratic Party. MLAA Apr 2025 #59
I'm sorry to hear it is progressing, Omaha Steve. Truly. And I wish you all the luck I can find... hlthe2b Apr 2025 #2
Oh man. Scary news. MontanaMama Apr 2025 #3
Good luck in your driving test. magicarpet Apr 2025 #4
thinking about giving up driving CountAllVotes Apr 2025 #5
Be sure to NEVER use cruise control if pavement is damp or wet. Attilatheblond Apr 2025 #50
Thanks for the advice CountAllVotes Apr 2025 #73
Understand completely Attilatheblond Apr 2025 #77
Best of luck to you! KT2000 Apr 2025 #6
You have done remarkably well jmbar2 Apr 2025 #7
golf cart. my family had one for a while. just a thought Tetrachloride Apr 2025 #8
The family at the top of the hill uses one in the neighborhood, especially as the dad's health declined Hekate Apr 2025 #53
I'm using Uber more often. Costco occasionally has Uber deals. I'll take an Uber to the train station, and AnotherMother4Peace Apr 2025 #58
You are taking this well. 1WorldHope Apr 2025 #9
Immanuel Rehabilitation Institute Omaha Steve Apr 2025 #12
Well, good luck. That is a more thorough test compared to 15 min with the dmv tester. 1WorldHope Apr 2025 #13
3 hours? Akakoji Apr 2025 #36
I wondered this too. An in-depth assessment TommyT139 Apr 2025 #80
I was about to say DFW Apr 2025 #94
You can't tell it from your posts. Good luck! 👍🍀 surfered Apr 2025 #10
My Exact Sentiments DallasNE Apr 2025 #23
Count me in on that comment too. I enjoy his valuable voice here. Nt lostnfound Apr 2025 #75
thanks for the brief education on this OS peacebuzzard Apr 2025 #11
That is a beautiful and heartfelt tale of your own. Thank you for sharing. erronis Apr 2025 #21
thank you! it is a minor freak out of mine when I forget things, peacebuzzard Apr 2025 #63
Praying you do well. My husband had to quit driving recently; I understand what a Ziggysmom Apr 2025 #14
Wishing you the best of luck! jgo Apr 2025 #15
Holding you in light and love, my friend. niyad Apr 2025 #16
Keep checking because I swear I have heard recently that they have made strides in these Maraya1969 Apr 2025 #17
Best wishes Omaha Steve. You got this 😍 Evolve Dammit Apr 2025 #18
Good luck, OS gademocrat7 Apr 2025 #19
Wishing you the best, Steve. As others here have already said, no one reading your posts would ever highplainsdem Apr 2025 #20
Best of luck 🤞 I hope you will be ok 🙏 TommieMommy Apr 2025 #22
You've got this, Steve! no_hypocrisy Apr 2025 #24
I like this for a mantra. peacebuzzard Apr 2025 #65
Oooooh, I like that too! calimary Apr 2025 #89
Good luck 🫂 benfranklin1776 Apr 2025 #25
Best of luck Duncanpup Apr 2025 #26
As someone above stated, you are a D.U. treasure. 3Hotdogs Apr 2025 #27
I wish you luck. barbtries Apr 2025 #28
Best of luck to you! SheltieLover Apr 2025 #29
Omaha Steve, I'm sending you all the luck I can find, along with a lot of positive thoughts. Dem2theMax Apr 2025 #30
Good luck and take care of yourself. multigraincracker Apr 2025 #31
I really wish you the best. May the good angels of The Universe stay by your side. LoisB Apr 2025 #32
For so many years BComplex Apr 2025 #33
I wish you the very best Steve JMCKUSICK Apr 2025 #34
I wish you love and luck.Omaha Steve. debm55 Apr 2025 #35
You are surrounded by your DU family who know, love, and support you, OS. wordstroken Apr 2025 #37
praying. Groundhawg Apr 2025 #38
Good luck Steve! Emile Apr 2025 #39
I wish you nothing but the best... Mad_Dem_X Apr 2025 #40
Sending best wishes and best of luck by air mail expedited special delivery. Permanut Apr 2025 #41
FTD. LizVerite Apr 2025 #42
All the best Wild blueberry Apr 2025 #43
Best of luck Steve! GoneOffShore Apr 2025 #44
Good luck Figarosmom Apr 2025 #45
Good luck! nt Shipwack Apr 2025 #46
Driving tests are scary enough no matter one's age or health status. 3catwoman3 Apr 2025 #47
I'm wishing you all the luck in the world, Steve! whathehell Apr 2025 #48
Did you see the article about the link between liver function and.... bee_peaceful Apr 2025 #49
Best of luck to you. beveeheart Apr 2025 #51
sending you the best vibes I can stillcool Apr 2025 #52
I hope you are still road-worthy, Steve True Dough Apr 2025 #54
I wish you the best, amigo JoseBalow Apr 2025 #55
Dear Omaha Steve ReRe Apr 2025 #56
Hang in there, Steve! Good luck. Ocelot II Apr 2025 #57
Steve, you're a DU gem. hamsterjill Apr 2025 #60
Good luck Steve. boonecreek Apr 2025 #61
Good luck !!!!! Karadeniz Apr 2025 #62
You're our Act Blue fundraiser organizer here Niagara Apr 2025 #64
I definitely wish you good luck and anything else that may help! liberalla Apr 2025 #66
Good luck! (n/t) OldBaldy1701E Apr 2025 #67
Wishing you the best and good luck, my friend. HeartsCanHope Apr 2025 #68
Steve sent you DU mail BonnieJW Apr 2025 #69
Much good luck Omaha Steve 🍀🍀🍀🍀 Clouds Passing Apr 2025 #70
Hang tough. cachukis Apr 2025 #71
I am sorry Omaha Steve. You've been a stalwart member of DU for almost 21 years. ------- Fla Dem Apr 2025 #72
Phosphatidyl Serine might help - here is a link Nigrum Cattus Apr 2025 #74
Research in England shows that Trazodone helps slow the advance Omaha Steve Apr 2025 #76
Hoping that all goes well for you. love_katz Apr 2025 #78
Thank you for sharing and providing the link. You are a huge asset here at DU and to the Democratic Party. MLAA Apr 2025 #79
Good luck. elleng Apr 2025 #81
OmahaSteve I'm sorry to hear this and I wish you much luck FakeNoose Apr 2025 #82
Driver's Written. kgray96057 Apr 2025 #83
Very tough. Best wishes Easterncedar Apr 2025 #84
So sorry. applegrove Apr 2025 #85
Good luck! Dorothy V Apr 2025 #86
Been pulling for you for years, I will continue pulling. marble falls Apr 2025 #87
I have faith that you will pass this! Stay present. Best to you! 58Sunliner Apr 2025 #88
Our thoughts are with you. Grumpy Old Guy Apr 2025 #90
Good luck... BigmanPigman Apr 2025 #91
Good Luck! electric_blue68 Apr 2025 #92
Wishing you every success, Steve! Lots of those powerful DU vibes will see you through! Rhiannon12866 Apr 2025 #93
I am so sorry, Omaha Steve. Bumbles Apr 2025 #95
I too see my day coming Be The Light Apr 2025 #96
I spoke with a doctor in our now walking group malaise Apr 2025 #97
Wishing you all the best luck and results. Moostache Apr 2025 #98
Im so sorry. You must be so scared :( My husband had an MRI last week.. samnsara Apr 2025 #99
Best of luck Steve! Polybius Apr 2025 #100
I turned 68 in January Omaha Steve Apr 2025 #101
All the best to you Steve. JohnSJ Apr 2025 #102
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