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Dear A Morpheus Felinae,

You don't have to apologize. I was a lurker for decades until I recently joined and still I lurk.

Cancer is so cruel. My husband passed Jan 1st this year. In my arms, in our home. It took me a while to gather the courage to reply to your post. I wish I could offer you something to help you, I really do. I truly understand being too tired to engage. My Tommy experienced this too and often we would just hold hands in silence with his head resting on mine because he was too weak to hold his head up. You have the right to react any way that brings you peace and comfort. I do wish I could give you gentle hug and just sit with you. Just know, I really do care.

No need to respond to my reply. Save your energy and know the DU family holds you in their thoughts. I hold you in mine and in my heart.

I would like to share with you and anyone reading this something I would often say that My Tommy loved::

"Be mindful to hold a presence with your loved ones every day that will become the blessing of a future memory!"

I wish you comfort and peace!