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30. You must tell him as most guys do not know or realize it. I wondered most of my life why I could not keep anything

Sat Sep 27, 2025, 06:02 PM

16 hrs ago

I had had decent paying jobs, but kept giving it away. I think it stems from wanting to have friends and only attracting narcissistic people. Those seem to see us coming from a mile away.

I remember working in NYC and going out with co workers every few nights and end up paying for all the drinks. Always..

Now I know about it and I still almost give in, but I reach for my phone in my pocket like I have a call and their moment is gone. A side note is now that I have told a couple of people is that they never ask me for anything at all, ever.

Good luck

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