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Sympthsical

(11,323 posts)
13. Yes, that pissed me off
Mon Jun 29, 2026, 08:32 PM
Monday

I've been to S.F. Pride functions many times over the years. I stopped going as often once I moved out to the burbs, got older, and just don't like being in public crowds anymore. (Apparently a win, because the water situation this year was real, real bad. Reports are the events were kind of a shitshow).

But for people to stand there, at an anti-hate event intended to unite people, and just let it go on the way it did. Not one soul among them intervened. They just watched one of our own, a staunch supporter of trans rights who has walked the walk for decades, get harassed like that.

I know many people just stay quiet around radical activists, because they know if they speak up, they'll be the next target of some of these clearly mentally imbalanced people.

But still - Where is the courage in my community?

From what I'm hearing and reading, I'm not alone in wondering why the community has been sitting through this constant harassment of him. These activists are beginning to over-play their position, and the resentment that they're starting to take over our events is real. A lot of people have responded by drifting out of more community centered things like this on account. Just avoid everything, because it's easier.

But eventually, something's going to give with all this. This guy who took the video wasn't even LGBT. He's a cishet activist hijacking our event and attacking one of our own.

And people stood there and watched. Unreal.

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he was assaulted. police report should be filed and attackers arrested. nt msongs Monday #1
Ive watched the video a couple of times and I dont see where anyone assaulted him. Eko Monday #7
assault includes behavior that causes a person to believe they are in danger msongs Monday #8
I saw one person the the left of him shouting. And heard some other people shouting. Eko Monday #10
It's gotten dumb and insane - and dangerous Sympthsical Monday #2
Some people just want to be assholes. RandySF Monday #5
I certainly understand this frustration with democratic leadership fujiyamasan Tuesday #16
Agree 100% Sympthsical Tuesday #17
Vicious Harassment! Thank Goodness it's Cha Monday #3
This whole episode is so disappointlingly disgusting. TheProle Monday #4
Bigotry of any kind is unacceptable! MustLoveBeagles Monday #6
Sad. And unfortunately illustrative .... stopdiggin Monday #9
The way the group quickly gathered around Wiener sarisataka Monday #11
Yes, that pissed me off Sympthsical Monday #13
"He's a cishet activist" Has that been confirmed? Behind the Aegis Tuesday #15
Yes, he posted on his Twitter that he's not gay Sympthsical Tuesday #18
And, surprise, surprise: S.F. Trans March organizers defend protesters who drove out Scott Wiener Behind the Aegis 4 hrs ago #19
People are *pissed* Sympthsical 4 hrs ago #20
There is another one out there of him being attacked in a restaurant. Behind the Aegis Monday #12
A gay man Boo1 Monday #14
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