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gulliver

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54. Elizabeth Warren points out the "two-income trap"...

Thu Jun 4, 2026, 12:36 PM

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...that everyone now falls into. Add that to egomania, laziness, and the addiction to ubiquitous 24x7 entertainment.

Start with what you want to do with your life and what the economy forces you to do for that. It's a recipe for misery and disaster.

Start with what makes healthy, grounded kids and a strong relationship. That will "probably" work better. You have much better odds anyway.

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"Women are expected to work like they have no children and parent like they have no job." [View all] Collimator Jun 3 OP

Bookmarked!!! IA8IT Jun 3 #1

Most Women sit around watching "A brighter Day" ..polishing their nails... chouchou Jun 3 #2

What is "A brighter Day"? TIA Celerity Jun 3 #15

A reference to the "soap operas" that women supposedly have nothing niyad Jun 3 #16

never heard of it Celerity Jun 3 #20

I had never heard of that one, either, so I looked it up. Wayyyyyyyyyy niyad Jun 3 #23

One of the ridiculous daytime Dramas that could have wasted one's life away. chouchou Jun 3 #37

I've never been a huge fan PatSeg Thursday #47

Unfortunately, Your words are True. chouchou Thursday #49

And guess what types of people PatSeg Thursday #50

My husband and I were invited to a dinner, the first time we saw that.. chouchou Thursday #60

I never understood the appeal PatSeg Thursday #65

Do you remember ... oldsoldierfadingfast Thursday #62

Oh dear PatSeg Thursday #64

Will the Democrats campaign on that issue? MustLoveBeagles Jun 3 #3

Symptom of a bigger issue Lithos Jun 3 #5

Yes it is. OldBaldy1701E Thursday #42

A smart candidate would Jilly_in_VA Thursday #52

Spot on. Raven123 Jun 3 #4

So Far Timewas Jun 3 #6

Until the 70's, women could do little financially on their own. paleotn Jun 3 #25

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Same thing happened to my spouse in 1986 Farmer-Rick Thursday #44

I lived those days Lifeafter70 Jun 3 #33

BTW StoolPigeon Jun 3 #7

Oh right... men have nothing but problems getting a lawyer! ihaveaquestion Jun 3 #9

Dear Goddess, it is very disappointing to see that sort of thing on a niyad Jun 3 #12

Being a single parent H2O Man Jun 3 #19

Lawyers won't take your money? Oh really. paleotn Jun 3 #26

Sounds serious Torchlight Jun 3 #28

Men can't afford lawyers? johnp3907 Jun 3 #35

And play mommy with benefits to an adult spouse. xuplate Jun 3 #8

OMG! After spending all day trying to find the wallet slightlv Jun 3 #17

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So sorry. paleotn Jun 3 #27

We are here for you, V SheltieLover Jun 3 #30

If you have a healthcare provider you regularly talk to Sympthsical Jun 3 #32

Thanks... slightlv Thursday #38

So pleased to hear this Sympthsical Thursday #40

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I hear you. Friends we've had for 20 years slightlv Thursday #59

A humble suggestion ... if he keeps losing his wallet FakeNoose Thursday #45

THAT's not a bad idea!!!! (LOL) slightlv Thursday #68

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heh Skittles Thursday #67

And then get no credit for either and blamed for everything Tumbulu Jun 3 #11

And that is putting it VERY politely. niyad Jun 3 #13

Unless you believe the "rumors" that Harris actually won. Which I do. slightlv Jun 3 #18

I mean...everyone is. It's just that women, for the most part, picked up the slack for some time, and now are not. WhiskeyGrinder Jun 3 #14

As a single father who raised three daughters BeneteauBum Jun 3 #24

Thank you so much for including the video link. I will look at it later, niyad Jun 3 #29

"Women are expected to work like they have no children and parent like they have no job." DET Jun 3 #34

GREAT and VERY TRUE line! Jack Valentino Jun 3 #36

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