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pat_k

(13,894 posts)
19. Take time. Renew. But know that you speak for many here.
Fri May 22, 2026, 02:30 AM
Yesterday

Here's something I posted right after the election. I think it still applies. Communities like this can be a source of strength for us. Perhaps we need to figure out how to do that part better.

1. Mourn. That will take all kinds of forms. Lashing out in anger or despair included, but we can help support each other in ways that ultimately preserve hope and reject the cynicism that immobilizes. Which leads to #2

2. Take care of each other. Support each other and share ideas for staying sane and engaged over the coming months and years.

3, Take care of ourselves. Encourage each other to connect with things that nourish us -- personally. We need to rebuild our strength.

4. Keep an eye on developments. I think there are going to be some creative things emerging that promote citizens working together in ways to shape their communities, shape attitudes, and accomplish some pretty great things, both large and small. I highly recommend this book for inspiration.

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Your post helped crystallized my thinking - along similar lines to yours. NewHendoLib Yesterday #1
Right there with you Tree Lady Yesterday #5
I completely understand. We all need to take a break from time to time. Grim Chieftain Yesterday #2
Amen to your four points. Ilsa Yesterday #3
Yep. We will have to dismantle the whole thing to get rid of the corporate corruption and rebuild PatrickforB Yesterday #4
Democracy or billionaires -- you can only choose one. nt eppur_se_muova Yesterday #6
And elected leaders cannot serve two masters. sop 18 hrs ago #27
DUDE, Sorry I am late to the show. I have hung around here for a long time and never really felt state of stupid Yesterday #7
very well expressed! PuraVidaDreamin 22 hrs ago #21
You expressed yourself beautifully Grim Chieftain 22 hrs ago #22
You expressed yourself better than I could express myself. Katinfl 18 hrs ago #28
Dude, you said it pretty well there. You get better with practice... Wounded Bear 17 hrs ago #34
from this post alone, I think you do just fine expressing yourself Skittles 3 hrs ago #46
Thanks for letting us know dweller Yesterday #8
... alwaysinasnit Yesterday #9
I quit for a whole day. usonian Yesterday #10
I try to quit Bettie 17 hrs ago #32
I use DU and Hacker News as my news aggergators, but it takes real skimming skills. usonian 16 hrs ago #36
We love you, angrychair. ❤️ littlemissmartypants Yesterday #11
Peace and a happy respite. LuvLoogie Yesterday #12
So long. Thanks for the fish. NNadir Yesterday #13
Nice Hitchhiker reference... Wounded Bear 17 hrs ago #35
you don't need to cut and run Skittles Yesterday #14
Post removed Post removed Yesterday #15
"Democrat party", eh? Tanuki Yesterday #17
".. Echo Chamber.." lol Du Cha 23 hrs ago #20
What's the Democrat Party? Which country is it in? rpannier Yesterday #18
I don't need to read DU when Murphy Brown is rerunning nightly BigmanPigman Yesterday #16
Take time. Renew. But know that you speak for many here. pat_k Yesterday #19
You will be missed malaise 21 hrs ago #23
I wish you'd stick around, but I get it Bettie 19 hrs ago #24
It's hard, so be kind to yourself. Peace out to you too! Passages 19 hrs ago #25
Peace 🙏 surfered 18 hrs ago #26
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I come here to express outrage at what Trump and his henchmen are doing to this country. It's cathartic. sop 18 hrs ago #29
When I think of you I think you stole Clint Eastwood's chair bucolic_frolic 18 hrs ago #30
Completely understand. Ferrets are Cool 18 hrs ago #31
It is sad that your thoughts are considered radical.. haele 17 hrs ago #33
Gonna miss your posts angrychair......peace, love, and thanks. a kennedy 16 hrs ago #37
I agree with your thoughts wholeheartedly Catlady123 16 hrs ago #38
We are not the radical ones. We are the sane ones. These are actions of the sane..... Clouds Passing 16 hrs ago #39
Just take a break - TBF 15 hrs ago #40
Good luck. It's definitely good to take breaks or find some place that fits you more now EdmondDantes_ 14 hrs ago #41
I take breaks all the time Quiet Em 14 hrs ago #42
You're not alone. (nt) Duncan Grant 8 hrs ago #43
Be well, be happy as able, mahina 6 hrs ago #44
Take care. And, to you and everyone else, don't forget get to tip on your way out tonight!🥰🥰🥰 MerryBlooms 3 hrs ago #47
The defenders of Israel's genocidal rampage through Gaza Sewa 1 hr ago #48
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