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pat_k

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62. Whether he earns the label misolgynist is debateable, but the label does nothing to lessen how troubling the ...
Sat Mar 21, 2026, 02:42 PM
9 hrs ago

... the feedback loop of social isolation and online radicalization by profiteers who are exploiting, and reinforcing, that isolation is.

The numbers are what they are, and should be incredibly troubling to any human being who has in interest in living in a functional society.

Of course it is not up to "women" to fix men, but real relationships in the REAL world are essential for mental health.

The fact is that a growing number of young people -- particularly young men -- have no such relationships and are essentially living their lives in an increasingly bizarre and extremist virtual world. It is literally driving them mad. And I, for one, am very interested in exploring the question of WHY and how to intervene. Just writing off these young men as defective, is not the answer.

It is a societal problem.

https://www.nytimes.com/2025/09/14/opinion/charlie-kirk-shooting-internet.html?unlocked_article_code=1.U1A.sOXZ.5ZQDi-f94XOD&smid=nytcore-android-share

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To exist in this machine is to exist in a realm dominated by what the writer Anton Jäger termed “hyperpolitics,” for the “low-cost, low-entry” politics with little ties to political institutions or clear political outcomes. To be a young person on large areas of the internet, in other words, is to exist in a state of perpetual conflict, where every action, every event, is coded with political significance, couched in irony or presented in a combative posture, starting from the moment one goes online.

It’s rapidly driving a generation mad. ...


Or as Elle Reeve, an investigative reporter known for her work covering Charlottesville and her book Black Pill, points out "Be careful trying to decipher the true political beliefs of people wrapped in so many layers of irony they're not sure of their own true beliefs."

This is a madness that I believe we must seek to come to grips with, perhaps starting with the developmental disadvantages boys start out with and the fact they have fewer role models as teachers. There is nothing "misogynist" about exploring such questions.

The thing is, the brand of extremism flourishing in male-dominated spaces on the internet is translating into real world violence that will undoubtedly be directed with greater frequency against women. That makes it a concern to all of us.

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Whether he earns the label misolgynist is debateable, but the label does nothing to lessen how troubling the ... pat_k 9 hrs ago #62
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