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haele

(15,373 posts)
18. Lots of kids.
Sat Mar 21, 2026, 12:45 PM
Saturday

Two of mom's neighbors (she grew up in a working class/immigrant Los Angeles neighborhood a couple miles away from the oil fields) had newborn babies die of a bleeding sickness.

The mother living next door to her had delivered seven live birth babies but only four survived the first six months. Those kids grew up fine and healthy, but still.
Three babies that everyone in the neighborhood knew within the first couple days were failing to thrive, and would die.
Mom still remembers how that affected everyone, including neighbor families.
The delicate social dance of playing or visiting at playmate homes that had been set up to welcome a new baby sibling, but were now being reset in anticipation of a funeral.
The anxiety of all the parents in the neighborhood. A feeling of holding one's breath, considering one's words, waiting for the inevitable.

And this was in the early-mid 1940's. And neighbors were more likely to look after each other in these situations, even if there were conflict between families.

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Astounding that the masses would rather believe politicians over a medical doctor? walkingman Saturday #1
I trust some high school drop out on TicToc Johonny Saturday #2
+1 dalton99a Saturday #3
Make America Stupid Again Diamond_Dog Saturday #4
I get the reference, but back in the time when these were not done, karynnj Saturday #8
Here's the problem. Of the medical people (doctors, nurses, ect..) who birthed these parents... haele Saturday #13
ding! this AllaN01Bear Saturday #19
Yet they will expect sympathy instead of the anger they deserve should their child die. Solly Mack Saturday #5
Got that right Rebl2 Saturday #9
I would like to see a nationwide geographic distribution harumph Saturday #6
More (stupidity) underpants Saturday #7
The same parents who will be first to sue the doctors whose care they rejected . . . hatrack Saturday #10
I wonder Rebl2 Saturday #11
Lots of kids. haele Saturday #18
I feel Rebl2 Saturday #22
I-DUH-ho is an absolute HOTBED of nuttery. Maru Kitteh Saturday #12
Idaho in my mind is possibly the worst state bluestarone Saturday #14
I'd put it in the top 3 for sure. Maru Kitteh Yesterday #23
'Brain Worm Head' is also demented. Joinfortmill Saturday #15
Righteousness today, crying tomorrow Auggie Saturday #16
OMG what the hell 😡 stupid people are putting their babies in danger. TommieMommy Saturday #17
The irony is that many of the of these refusenik parents mwmisses4289 Saturday #20
Fucking idiots. nt Exp Saturday #21
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