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pat_k

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26. My sister got her first passport in the name she always used with just an affidavit from my mom.

Thu Mar 19, 2026, 04:18 PM

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When she got married, her marriage certificate had the birth certificate name as the maiden name, even though she had no other identification in that name.

She has since divorced, but somehow that marriage certificate has worked to connect birth cert name to a hyphenated last name (stepfather's-husband's). I've never needed a passport, although I almost needed to travel to Rwanda when my sister was injured there. The embassy guy helping out in the emergency advised that I get a passport in my birth cert name and just ignore all other ID. I suppose I could do that for registering to vote, but it just feels like something would certainly go wrong having a passport in a name that has effectively not existed since 1964, and all other ID in a different name that has existed since 1964.

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Who will be training poll workers how to authenticate birth certificates? Tim S Thursday #1

Need the birth certificate to register to vote Kaleva Thursday #61

We Have Our BCs ProfessorGAC Thursday #2

When all this nonsense started redstatebluegirl Thursday #55

My Passport Expired ProfessorGAC Thursday #56

Please get her a real id! redstatebluegirl Thursday #57

Real ID does not prove citizenship, Ms. Toad Yesterday #94

And yet, to get a Real ID Bettie 21 hrs ago #100

No. Citizenship isn't required to get a RealID. Ms. Toad 17 hrs ago #108

No, it isn't Bettie 16 hrs ago #109

I was explaining why they can't use RealID for voter registration/reregistration under the Save Act - Ms. Toad 14 hrs ago #110

The weird part is that the rules vary from state to state Bettie 13 hrs ago #114

I said that in the first post you responded to. Ms. Toad 10 hrs ago #117

Those are 'Enhanced ID'. In New York at least, they cost $30 more than Real ID; and both are still being issued lostnfound 10 hrs ago #118

It Was A Tangential Point ProfessorGAC 19 hrs ago #106

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Yeah I knew someone who discovered his name was misspelled underpants Thursday #17

You got off lucky with that price tonkatoy8888 Thursday #35

Yes they will. Funny I haven't heard that discussed much underpants Thursday #41

That would be an issue for me. Ms. Toad Yesterday #95

And those of us women who grew up with the tradition of taking husband's surname are gonna have to fight to vote Attilatheblond Thursday #4

And if you married more than once it's even more of a battle. quaint Thursday #29

Took first husband's surname because that was the general rule way back then Attilatheblond Thursday #58

My first wife kept her family name. Squaredeal 20 hrs ago #105

I renewed my passport last year. Ritabert Thursday #6

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Would I still have to get a passport to vote? EarthAbides Thursday #8

If you have an Enhanced ID with a flag -- not a regular REAL ID with a star -- pnwmom Thursday #47

That's what I've told my daughter. bamagal62 Thursday #63

I have both. nt doc03 Thursday #9

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Me too, copies, California, skin. quaint Thursday #30

Good luck evading the skin police. And congratulations on hitting the 5000 post milestone. usonian Thursday #32

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California foothills, a "go bag" is part of life. usonian Thursday #34

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My grandfather had three different birth dates on his official documents. hunter Yesterday #91

... 2naSalit Thursday #14

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This is worrisome. Your case is exactly the kind that could be affected by the SAVE Act... PeaceWave Thursday #18

My sister got her first passport in the name she always used with just an affidavit from my mom. pat_k Thursday #26

pat_k..your situation is just like mine. I had to get a family lawyer and all my papers together and let a judge Deuxcents Thursday #31

Name change by usage is perfectly legal. pat_k Thursday #37

If they're gonna require this, then they should extend the hours or make it simpler. What a hassle Deuxcents Thursday #49

I had the same problem and couldn't get a enhanced license ribrepin Thursday #71

Interesting. pat_k Thursday #85

I worked on getting a name change through the courts for years ribrepin 21 hrs ago #98

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I have an enhanced drivers license in Michigan that is usable as id. Srkdqltr Thursday #19

Anticipating this chicanery my folks got me an official copy... Hugin Thursday #20

Sounds like my then 73 year old Mom carrying around her original Central American passport... PeaceWave Thursday #25

aren't you the one who said what's the problem with showing ID? Skittles Thursday #48

Okay, first off, you're entirely too angry. Second, I once asked the question... PeaceWave Thursday #67

Anyone who is not 'entirely too angry' is perhaps not paying enough attention.... Jack Valentino Thursday #69

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The same to you! Jack Valentino Thursday #74

oh there is ANOTHER option Skittles Thursday #76

DAMN straight Skittles Thursday #78

and in this context, sounds a little bit like 'mansplaining'.... amirite or Jack Valentino Yesterday #88

DU is my oasis from repuke garbage Skittles Yesterday #89

if you are ANYTHING but VERY ANGRY right now Skittles Thursday #75

See Post 70 PeaceWave Thursday #77

PASS Skittles Thursday #79

WEAK. Jack Valentino Yesterday #90

probably busy with their "$3 meal" Skittles Yesterday #92

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I can. ananda Thursday #22

I have mine. Faux pas Thursday #23

I do SocialDemocrat61 Thursday #24

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Me, because I did membership for DAR last year obamanut2012 Thursday #33

I can, and I have a current passport. maxsolomon Thursday #36

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I have Rebl2 Thursday #39

This message was self-deleted by its author Doodley Thursday #40

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Not black women Keepthesoulalive Yesterday #96

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Newsflash: The birth certificate your mom saved from your original birthday doesn't count. milestogo Thursday #42

When markodochartaigh Thursday #43

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I've had reason to peruse old census records, 1800-say 1950 bucolic_frolic Thursday #52

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In anticipation Traildogbob Thursday #84

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The Answer SHOULD BE 100%! ForeGoneLegsBirne 21 hrs ago #102

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Top drawer of the file cabinet,,,, lastlib 11 hrs ago #116