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markodochartaigh

(5,545 posts)
24. The hospital
Wed Feb 4, 2026, 12:01 AM
Feb 4

I worked for for three decades had an absolutely spineless, or maybe they agreed with the patients, administration. Sometimes we would have patients who didn’t want a nurse or nurse aide of a particular ethnicity, didn’t want a male nurse, etc. Administration absolutely never backed an employee up on anything whatsoever so it was generally agreed that if a patient who was prejudiced against a certain group didn’t have to interact with someone of that group it was all for the best. It was unusual for them to ask for a particular "classification" of doctor but it did occur. One time a patient insisted on a Black doctor. There wasn't a Black doctor in the e.r. that day. So we had a Tamil doctor see the patient. He was very athletic and spent a lot of time playing soccer in the Dallas sun. His skin was much darker than the patient's skin. The patient had absolutely no understanding that his "Black" doctor was as Caucasian as the physician assistant of Norwegian descent. We had a lot of Malayali staff members and very frequently we had patients get upset that they didn't speak Spanish. We had Muslim nurses in hijabs and patients often thought that they were sisters.

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I think DJT has given these cretins permission to show their true MIButterfly Feb 3 #1
Yes, I believe you're right. Laffy Kat Feb 3 #5
I have the same theory. yellow dahlia Feb 3 #6
Your theory is correct - I heard it straight from the MAGA horse's mouth: "Trump speaks for me." chia Feb 3 #15
It was carefully cultivated assholery Roy Rolling Feb 4 #34
You are right on. appleannie1 Feb 3 #20
yes Skittles Feb 4 #43
Wow MustLoveBeagles Feb 3 #2
i was witness to an incident Tetrachloride Feb 3 #3
Wow BlueWaveNeverEnd Feb 3 #4
Oh no. That was dreadful. Diamond_Dog Feb 3 #7
We can't. These assholes have always been around Wifes husband Feb 3 #9
They've always been here they've just been pretty good at concealing themselves and there just simply unmasking. cstanleytech Feb 4 #32
I would have been tempted to say, "No problem, Sally can do your X-Ray", and then Bluetus Feb 3 #8
Just sit her in the waiting room dickthegrouch Feb 3 #10
Hope the pain is excruciating. johnp3907 Feb 3 #11
What if . . . AverageOldGuy Feb 3 #12
I know someone who used to schedule appts for a large med system progressoid Feb 3 #13
I'm a retired EMT AverageOldGuy Feb 3 #14
Pleasantly surprised to hear that he was arrested and fined. nt ecstatic Feb 3 #22
This was in a small rural county . . . AverageOldGuy Feb 4 #33
I used to be an EMT, too. Laffy Kat Feb 4 #37
I sincerely hope... Chellee Feb 3 #16
An asshole being an asshole. hamsterjill Feb 3 #17
I had a similar event in the car business, client asked to be called via email Shellback Squid Feb 3 #18
Jeezus. Horrible person. Joinfortmill Feb 4 #28
When I was having surgery, they asked me if I was allergic to anything. Turbineguy Feb 3 #19
I'm curious about which insurer she has ecstatic Feb 3 #21
It's Kaiser. Laffy Kat Feb 4 #38
Wow - - - just Wow. Talitha Feb 3 #23
The hospital markodochartaigh Feb 4 #24
Haha. Crazy. Joinfortmill Feb 4 #29
We do not accommodate such requests in the facility AllyCat Feb 4 #25
Good riddance, I say. Joinfortmill Feb 4 #26
Social media makes everything real. eom SalamanderSleeps Feb 4 #27
I just spent a little less than a week in the Hospital Botany Feb 4 #30
How Rude OC375 Feb 4 #31
I have said multiple times KentuckyWoman Feb 4 #35
Remove these idiots from the rest of the risk pool fujiyamasan Feb 4 #41
I thought I had heard everything. Boy..I put those people (We're talking about)... chouchou Feb 4 #36
It makes one wonder what would happen if they ever needed a blood transfusion. Totally Tunsie Feb 4 #39
"Those types" tend to be authoritarian in proclivity misanthrope Feb 4 #40
when I contracted for a major telephone company Skittles Feb 4 #42
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