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48. That seems a rather blanket statement, sorta like "every immigrant from India is a math genius"
Sun Nov 30, 2025, 12:51 PM
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My daughter in Manhattan makes six figures (barely), which, after federal, state and city taxes barely covers child care for her two sons. Her husband’s salary covers mortgage payments, food, utilities, clothing, etc. and they sure as never splurge on luxury anything. They don’t have a fancy wide flatscreen TV because they don’t have ANY TV. The couple of fancy trips, like, for example, to Hawai’i for our 40th anniversary were paid by her sister in Germany, who makes seven figures. She paid for our trips, too, by the way. She is frugal, but also generous with her money, puts a lot of it away for her children, and even some for her sister’s kids, since they don’t have a lot left over. But they definitely don’t live beyond their means, and don’t have any frivolous debts, or really any debts beyond their mortgage. In fact, of the people in our circle of friends, of those in the six figure and above category, we don’t know anyone who fits the description you provide. Obviously you do, or you wouldn’t have made such a generalized statement, but it is anything BUT universal.

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American Enterprise Institute has only one wing nilram Saturday #1
A fantasy snowybirdie Saturday #2
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Why shouldn't a "lifestyle" include sports and 2 cars? leftstreet Saturday #5
I think that might be his point. yardwork Sunday #44
Ridiculous Greg_In_SF Saturday #4
When you start with a baseline of 40% dpibel Saturday #11
Well, then it Greg_In_SF Saturday #14
Well, feel free to trot out the figures dpibel Saturday #19
A map.... Greg_In_SF Sunday #32
Now you're just being obtuse dpibel Sunday #43
How dare you call me obtuse Greg_In_SF Sunday #55
DURec leftstreet Saturday #6
"It's laughable to put a poverty line far above the median income in the United States." mountain grammy Saturday #7
Yes, talk about circular logic! yardwork Sunday #45
Mr. Green's numbers sound about right. mwmisses4289 Saturday #8
"minimum rent in most areas is around $2000 a month" -Extremely wrong Wiz Imp Saturday #12
Be interesting to see how they came up with those numbers. mwmisses4289 Saturday #13
It's from the American Community Survey Wiz Imp Saturday #16
You'd have to limit the options to housing appropriate to a family of 4 EdmondDantes_ Saturday #17
I was responding to the claim that minimum rent was at leas $2000 Wiz Imp Saturday #23
That post mentioned families, and in the larger context of the thread EdmondDantes_ Sunday #49
✋ 🙄🫨😒🧱💤🚫🫷「 ✦ Bye ✦ 」 Wiz Imp Sunday #50
In my area in NC even a run-down unsafe apartment is more than $1,000. yardwork Sunday #46
Green's required net income: $118,009. The $136,500 is gross. For a family of 4. Celerity Saturday #26
That's another reason a lot of people Haggard Celine Sunday #33
That was the reason my wife worked part time until our daughter was old enough for elementary school NickB79 Sunday #41
Anyone hiring young people to six figures Johonny Sunday #42
Don't know national averages but a little perspective JT45242 Sunday #51
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The basic definition of poverty is this: Wiz Imp Saturday #25
The observations have merit, even if the specific application of conclusion doesn't. unblock Sunday #31
I would think for most families of 4 it's enough to live on but very little disposable income for extras. Raftergirl Saturday #10
Good point Greg_In_SF Saturday #15
Big jump, no? dpibel Saturday #20
I see my Greg_In_SF Monday #56
LOL dpibel Monday #57
LOL!!! valleyrogue Saturday #18
But I believe you've missed the point dpibel Saturday #21
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To be fair, we are insane Sympthsical Sunday #39
Michael Green is a moron. Wiz Imp Saturday #24
This is a very convincing argument dpibel Sunday #27
Disagree (after reading it fully) & the $136,500 figure is gross, his required net income: $118,009. For a family of 4. Celerity Sunday #30
Spot on! DFW Sunday #37
Hyperbole much? JonAndKatePlusABird Sunday #40
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That seems a rather blanket statement, sorta like "every immigrant from India is a math genius" DFW Sunday #48
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you lose more than you gain as you move up from very low income levels Celerity Sunday #36
+1 Really good article leftstreet Sunday #47
Depends on Location and Demographics DET Sunday #35
The reactions to this are so goddamn illuminating WhiskeyGrinder Sunday #38
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Child care is the largest cost in the OP article's example. Larger than housing cost. Celerity Sunday #54
"It's laughable to put a poverty line far above the median income in the United States." Grins Sunday #53
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