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Chicagogrl1

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10. What they need validated

Reply to John Coktosten (Reply #1)

Sun Nov 30, 2025, 12:22 PM

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Is their shittiness, their inadequacies, their racism, they’re overall need to feel like they’re important even though they haven’t done the work.

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What does this mean? John Coktosten Sunday #1

In the case of people who vote for Trump, what he validates for them is their racism, their hatred of people who are Martin68 Sunday #3

It's Al Franken's "Stuart Smalley" character Miles Archer Sunday #7

Simple. White people need validation that they're the ones who are and should be in charge. paleotn Sunday #5

"doesn't even realize he's doing it most of the time" Seinan Sensei Sunday #6

I agree that Trump isn't intelligent... CBHagman Sunday #15

"A real life Elmer Gantry"...... 70sEraVet Sunday #12

Agree-- evolves Sunday #13

Even simpler: liberalgunwilltravel Sunday #14

I rarely (have I ever? Rhetorical) asked someone's post be its own post duhneece Sunday #17

Average people are now Mediocre - Disposable extras and "seconds ". haele Sunday #23

Brilliant explanation. Aristus Sunday #29

What they need validated Chicagogrl1 Sunday #10

That's because you are a normal human being. What I mean by normal is: reasonably well adjusted and comfortable with KPN Sunday #16

Thank you KPN John Coktosten Sunday #21

It means TSF is stupid enough... Trueblue Texan Sunday #24

It means TSF is the pimp... returnee Sunday #25

I would interpret "the need for validation" as "there's a type of person who needs to feel superior to other people." CrispyQ Sunday #26

That you matter. That you're special. That you're a winner. Joinfortmill Sunday #27

As Brolin said, they look to him for validation. He validates their hate by hating the same people they do. patphil Sunday #2

Not everyone can think for themselves. They are the slow running zebras. twodogsbarking Sunday #4

Even worse.... Roy Rolling Sunday #8

Good One !!!!!!!!!!! popsdenver Sunday #9

Probably includes the men around him too John Coktosten Sunday #22

I have no doubt about popsdenver Sunday #28

Exactly orangecrush Sunday #11

really kind of wish that peope would stop using the term 'genius' in ANY sphere or context .. stopdiggin Sunday #18

Totally BaronChocula Sunday #20

That is how cults work BaronChocula Sunday #19

he makes being an asshole a 'good' thing. pansypoo53219 Monday #30

Looks like the same dynamics of relations between women and abusive men also Stargazer99 Monday #31

Yes, but it's not that hard or so genius when you have a whole goddamn propaganda network LymphocyteLover Monday #32

That's a really excellent observation. Happy Hoosier Monday #33