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TommyT139

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20. I'm not sure

Reply to usedtobedemgurl (Reply #16)

Sat Nov 29, 2025, 09:48 PM

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...but you can ask what their boundaries are -- essentially whose "side" they're on. Them being part of your medical team should mean that they cannot share info about your condition without your permission (HIPAA), except in certain situations which they are bound to explain in advance. I believe those are limited to things like whether you are abusing children, elders. But you can ask.

Do you have any family members or trusted friends who are aware of what's going on? Or a therapist of some sort? Having folks on your side can reassure people working on your case that you've got social supports in place.

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