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LisaM

(29,450 posts)
27. I don't go out on Black Friday, never have.
Fri Nov 28, 2025, 12:55 PM
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But one year, I had to run to Target or somewhere for one thing on Thanksgiving Day, maybe even the day before? Anyway, our Target is next to a Best Buy. Much to my bemusement, there were big groups of people (they mostly seemed Mexican) already lined up at Best Buy, with chairs and pup tents and thermoses and blankets.

They were having the time of their lives. They were happy, and socializing with each other, and chattering about deals. It was one of the most festive things I have ever seen. It reminded me of when I was a freshman in college and we camped out all night for football tickets (before all this online anonymity).

At that point I decided to drop my snobbery about people who enjoyed Black Friday. I like people to socialize and have fun. It really lifted my spirits. The people weren't there because of materialism, really. Sure, they were being enticed in to buy a few seasonal items, but they all knew it. It was like a game.

What I don't like is that now the greed of the CEOs, their willingness to kowtow to Trump, has put up another barrier to joy. I don't want to give money to those people either (though it's better than giving a nickel to Amazon or Airbnb). But I don't want to take away the fun the shoppers were having either. People have shopped for millennia and wares have been displayed in fun ways all that time too.

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Barter. Open your drawers, closets, attics, basements, garages. bucolic_frolic Friday #1
Make something! Hugin Friday #6
"mounds of misfit items" is a good way of putting it! /nt bucolic_frolic Friday #7
Not every American llmart Friday #19
It's not hard. My parents grew up in the depression and I inherited the "cheap" usonian Friday #2
Mark Twain is usually attributed to the quote NotHardly Friday #21
No shopping for us today, none at all. lark Friday #3
This message was self-deleted by its author PeaceWave Friday #4
Haha! That's a lovely gift! nt babylonsister Friday #10
100,000 people with ten dollars is much scarier than one person with a million dollars. Hugin Friday #5
It's the constant advertizing that most people are exposed to nonstop. PoindexterOglethorpe Friday #8
I have found that "having everything you need" is not about acquiring the correct pile of stuff RockRaven Friday #9
It's like the anecdote of the author who said "I have what he'll never have -- enough." nt eppur_se_muova Friday #13
Absolutely. PoindexterOglethorpe Friday #16
Agreed jfz9580m Friday #26
Take it from us Canadians, it works and our resolve is strong. Bev54 Friday #11
I've practiced voluntary simplicity since the early 1990's. llmart Friday #20
Likewise.... anciano Friday #24
Had planned to...but had to go to Aldi to get food JT45242 Friday #12
I think it's understood that shopping for food is a necessity. llmart Friday #22
Just frustrated in that they never get enough food to feed everyone because they hate leftovers JT45242 Friday #33
Oh, now I get it. llmart Friday #34
No shopping for this guy. lastlib Friday #14
I was hoping your header was sarcasm. nt Exp Friday #15
howdi AllaN01Bear Friday #17
I need groceries pfitz59 Friday #18
Groceries... llmart Friday #23
We should buy less anyway. Envirogal Friday #25
What a terrific post! llmart Friday #35
I don't go out on Black Friday, never have. LisaM Friday #27
Having lunch with my Granddaughter. Lochloosa Friday #28
Every Dollar Is A Vote... ret5hd Friday #29
We never go out on Black Friday Jilly_in_VA Friday #30
Yup Joinfortmill Friday #31
In our conversion from citizens to consumers markodochartaigh Friday #32
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