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llmart

(17,198 posts)
15. A little proud?
Wed Nov 26, 2025, 02:27 PM
Wednesday

You should be a LOT proud of that.

I was brought up by parents, especially my father, who taught us to always question authority. My mother was a bit more tactful and she'd always say, "Don't be a follower, be a leader" and "If something feels wrong to you, trust yourself. Don't do something just because someone in authority says to do it." Both of my parents were very anti-war. My father was anti-gun also. He remembered his father telling him about how his uncle disobeyed an order to carry a gun and the powers that be put him up againsts a wall and shot him. My paternal grandfather was born ion 1888, so that will give you a time frame of what era this happened in in Europe somewhere. I have never known more details about that but I sure wish I did.

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I refused orders once... [View all] Capperdan Wednesday OP
I never disobeyed an order when I was on active duty EYESORE 9001 Wednesday #1
It's amazing what people (soldiers) will do if they've been told the "others" are the enemy. erronis Wednesday #3
Trump needs to lie to the soldiers and sailors popsdenver Wednesday #21
You can be a lot proud of that one. TheRickles Wednesday #2
Please accept my gratitude, sir! lastlib Wednesday #4
Thank you lastlib Capperdan Wednesday #9
And you should be proud, MarineCombatEngineer Wednesday #5
And back at you MCE Capperdan Wednesday #10
The closest I came was in the USAF in 1969. MineralMan Wednesday #6
My hat off to you, MM. That takes guts and a true sense of what's right. erronis Wednesday #23
Or, I'm a smartass. MineralMan Wednesday #24
I think you were a smart smartass. 3catwoman3 Wednesday #25
I had a similar experience LogDog75 Wednesday #34
Yes, exactly. MineralMan Thursday #36
We were breaking down our NDP (night defensive position), and The Wizard Wednesday #7
Yup, brave. Joinfortmill Wednesday #8
more info? NJCher Wednesday #11
LOL! Great gifs FakeNoose Wednesday #20
You should be proud. Nt Figarosmom Wednesday #12
Love that you did this, and that blue_jay Wednesday #13
And you should be mountain grammy Wednesday #14
A little proud? llmart Wednesday #15
Good on you. 3catwoman3 Wednesday #16
Im sure it would have Capperdan Wednesday #27
Thank you Capperdan! Clouds Passing Wednesday #17
I salute your service, honor and integrity, Capperdan Grim Chieftain Wednesday #18
Well thanks, GC Capperdan Wednesday #28
Had a friend in the Army refuse an order in Vietnam surfered Wednesday #19
thank you for your honorable service. cab67 Wednesday #22
My father refused Bmoboy Wednesday #26
Thank you KT2000 Wednesday #29
Thank you. I'm proud of you too. Ohioboy Wednesday #30
Precisely the Correct Action Nictuku Wednesday #31
On the other hand . . . Aussie105 Wednesday #32
If that happened, no one would consider charging the coerced soldier. TomSlick Wednesday #33
My late brother, who flew BlueMTexpat Thursday #35
This message was self-deleted by its author sarchasm Thursday #37
I was in 6-years. I NEVER got an illegal order. Grins Thursday #38
At Kent State the students tricked a gung ho commander into following them. GreenWave Thursday #39
Those were crazy times to be 20 years old Capperdan Thursday #41
My ROTC Ranger group committed mass mutiny one time... malthaussen Thursday #40
On the other hand (and only tangentially related) malthaussen Thursday #42
I am thankful I never had to face a situation in which I would have to refuse an order. mucholderthandirt Thursday #43
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