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97. I must admit
Sun Aug 24, 2025, 01:15 PM
Sunday
that I have been told I have high expectations.
You see the phrase as a fact of life and wear it on your sleeve.
I see the phrase as discouraging and disheartening and can't think of an instance in which I would use it.
It takes all kinds, radical noodle, and you and I are two of them.

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dems needs to stop with the purity tests [View all] moonshinegnomie Saturday OP
"I never submitted the whole system of my opinions to the creed of any party Ping Tung Saturday #1
"We must all hang together or assuredly we shall all hang separately." W_HAMILTON Saturday #4
Said the man who, soldierant Saturday #39
Well, if we are going all the way back to the very beginning, ReRe Saturday #52
ssshhh, mah principles are peaking. praying for the gaza voters in dearborn Nimble_Idea 6 hrs ago #147
There is no perfect candidate. People waiting for one are going to have a long wait. Jim__ Saturday #2
Yes, and in my old age they come across to me as privileged a*holes. RandomNumbers Sunday #87
Those applying the purity tests of which you speak almost assuredly are NOT Democrats.... W_HAMILTON Saturday #3
🤔 mcar Saturday #12
Right, most make a career out of right wing being in office JI7 Saturday #18
??? niyad Saturday #45
Tell that to all those who didn't like Democratic candidates who disagreed even slightly with them on the Wonder Why Saturday #34
Most of them hated Democrats to begin with and Gaza was just the most recent thing to bash them over. W_HAMILTON Saturday #72
The young are marching in the streets all over the world over genocide womanofthehills Sunday #101
The pro-Pals have been conspicuous by their silence comradebillyboy 21 hrs ago #131
Wrong - thousands protested in NYC last week womanofthehills 20 hrs ago #136
People living their lives aren't a purity test. WhiskeyGrinder Saturday #5
He never said that. The comments about the age 25 Phoenix61 Saturday #19
Thank you. nt Sparkly Saturday #21
On the Shawn Ryan podcast last month, Ryan was setting up the point that people under 18 should not get transition care WhiskeyGrinder Saturday #28
"Totally get it" doesn't mean he agrees. Phoenix61 Saturday #32
Thanks for this link. ShazzieB Sunday #86
This. He is educable and to jump on him for those answers is ridiculous. travelingthrulife 20 hrs ago #135
Thanks. BannonsLiver Saturday #71
it's irrelevant AlexSFCA Saturday #48
💯 agree BannonsLiver Saturday #6
May I please point out customerserviceguy Saturday #7
and he won...... moonshinegnomie Saturday #9
EXACTLY!!! johnnyfins Saturday #30
precisely.. it's called PRAGMATISM, as in B.See Sunday #81
Yes, that is true customerserviceguy Sunday #98
Yep. Why our side doesn't get that writerJT Saturday #64
Yeah and they won. EllieBC Sunday #74
We have to do better on social media womanofthehills Sunday #109
If you don't win Susan Calvin Sunday #83
Ah yes, the absolute horror of winning elections! BannonsLiver Sunday #96
Yeah, not quite Hitler, but close enough. thought crime Sunday #115
Being against purity tests should be a litmus test for leadership in the party gulliver Saturday #8
Or someone self-aggrandizing who's out to sabotage a Democratic candidate Sparkly Saturday #22
That's the reason we lose elections samsingh Saturday #10
Candidates need to market themselves like Mamdani womanofthehills Sunday #107
this is good strategy samsingh 22 hrs ago #123
None of this is new mcar 21 hrs ago #126
You have to admit having a scavenger hunt was pretty unique womanofthehills 20 hrs ago #137
Yeah, that was cute mcar 20 hrs ago #138
Mamdani appears to be a good deal more politically skilled comradebillyboy 21 hrs ago #133
He's really knows how to appeal to the young womanofthehills 7 hrs ago #145
No pedestals CloudWatcher Saturday #11
I tend to like people Sparkly Saturday #26
Al Gore v. George Bush? ReRe Saturday #55
No reason to bring Al Gore into this. BannonsLiver Saturday #68
People with great personalities are more electable womanofthehills Sunday #110
For the last 40 years at least, Dems have been held to standards... ananda Saturday #13
Yep - ever since Reagan, they've had no standards at all FakeNoose Saturday #25
That's true. He was the first to play the race card. ananda Saturday #56
1968 was so messed up because of Bobby Kennedy FakeNoose Saturday #62
1968 RobinA 12 hrs ago #143
yup Skittles Saturday #31
Yep, we want to protect the rights of women and POC and that's why they hate us Walleye Sunday #104
Yep, we protect the rights of women and POC and that's why they hate us Walleye Sunday #105
i agree moonshinegnomie Saturday #41
Needing to be "enthusiastic" over the Dem in a general election BaronChocula Saturday #14
Yes, and Sparkly Saturday #35
Many kids online have said if there was ever a draft they would not show up womanofthehills 7 hrs ago #146
2025 and we are talking about how do Dems go about figuring out how NoMoreRepugs Saturday #15
They go low we need to go lower ironman_25 Saturday #16
Since the 'playground bully' has purportedly won two presidential elections, Jack Valentino Saturday #63
that's right! IzzaNuDay Saturday #65
Mamdani is not going low to win womanofthehills Sunday #108
Agree. There is no such thing as the perfect candidate. You vote for the one closest CousinIT Saturday #17
The problem is people treating politics like a personal religion JI7 Saturday #20
Believing that all politicians are corrupt except their pure moral authentic anti-establishment outsider heroes betsuni Saturday #54
At the same time they view those that vote Republican as victims JI7 Sunday #77
They'll make cryptic little comments implying everybody stayed home in a dark closet rocking back and forth betsuni Sunday #79
And looking for a soul mate JustAnotherGen Saturday #60
That's why I always ask about who they voted for in other offices JI7 Sunday #78
Which is a highly dubious claim in even the best marriages. Heidi Sunday #88
Oh come on! You KNOW we want cat pics!!! niyad Sunday #94
Hahahaha! Heidi Sunday #99
Now we absolutely HAVE to see them! niyad Sunday #100
Here you go! Heidi Yesterday #119
squeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee!!!! They are soooo adorable! Thank you!!! niyad 23 hrs ago #121
Thank you! Heidi 22 hrs ago #124
Just one of many reasons we love them. niyad 21 hrs ago #125
! Heidi 19 hrs ago #139
First of all, Just Jerome Saturday #23
I remember that from the JustAnotherGen 21 hrs ago #127
Me meeting Obama! LeftInTX 19 hrs ago #140
Only "purity test": RVN VET71 Saturday #24
My only comment... WarGamer Saturday #27
hes not my top choice either moonshinegnomie Saturday #42
Fair enough BannonsLiver Saturday #70
I'd like to see a full primary slate and let "iron sharpen iron" WarGamer Sunday #91
I don't support JustAnotherGen 21 hrs ago #128
Let's be honest angrychair Saturday #29
id love aoc but i dont think she can win moonshinegnomie Saturday #43
I'm 52 JustAnotherGen 21 hrs ago #129
"VP Harris got more votes..." R0ckyRac00n Saturday #49
To be truly fair, Kamala Harris got exactly the same number of votes as Biden in 2020... PunkinPi 23 hrs ago #120
Republicans get angry about something, they go out and vote. sop Saturday #33
Not this Democrat. ;-) ReRe Saturday #57
Keeping a Republican from being able to make Supreme Court appointments... 3catwoman3 Saturday #36
Purity tests Jilly_in_VA Saturday #37
just be a democrat marti Saturday #38
100% this relayerbob Saturday #40
Please, way too early for this! Emile Saturday #44
If you want a very perfect candidate. You should run. Give us all the benefit of a really perfect person Srkdqltr Saturday #46
We need to educate ourselves to understand that choosing a Democratic candidate is like choosing which bus to take. Scrivener7 Saturday #47
Purity in politics is for the weak minded. The Wizard Saturday #50
(sigh!) Nothing But The Best For The Oppressed DinahMoeHum Saturday #51
Sorry? You lost me. ReRe Saturday #58
Letting the perfect. . . DinahMoeHum Saturday #59
Ah. I've never been fond of that term, myself. ReRe Saturday #61
It's a fact of life radical noodle Sunday #84
I must admit ReRe Sunday #97
Well, let me know if you ever find a perfect person radical noodle Yesterday #118
Indeed. writerJT Saturday #66
The only goal is defeating evil, and saving our democracy. Irish_Dem Saturday #53
Lose the election and no principles writerJT Saturday #67
I think it would be helpful if people got a little more wise to that. BannonsLiver Saturday #69
We play right into their hands with the culture war bullshit. BlueTsunami2018 Saturday #73
Dems need to discuss all of this flamingdem Sunday #76
Newsom is stepping up and acting presidential flamingdem Sunday #75
I think middle America & Independent voters will be a problem for him womanofthehills Sunday #111
I made similar observation weeks ago. B.See Sunday #80
Much of the nitpicking happens murielm99 Sunday #82
Sorry to say, but B.See Sunday #114
100% correct CommonHumanity Sunday #85
We need to nominate candidates who will win Mysterian Sunday #89
That is absolutely true. Srkdqltr Sunday #90
This is one of the biggest lessons to be learned. thought crime Sunday #117
What I don't like is when they buy into the GOP narrative iemanja Sunday #92
True allies LISTEN. (nt) Heidi Sunday #93
Tell that to the League of Women Voters Geechie Sunday #95
I agree. love_katz Sunday #102
yup. and if they don't our Democracy will be over. lostincalifornia Sunday #103
Alwayshopefull Alwayshopefull Sunday #106
No Cirsium Sunday #112
Agreed. But the NOses! Behind the Aegis Sunday #113
Yes, the purity tests have resulted in a presidential cabinet full Nixie Sunday #116
I know there is or was JustAnotherGen 21 hrs ago #130
Great post, and totally agree about Newsom and the culture element Nixie 16 hrs ago #141
I don't understand the oligarchy tour message. betsuni 13 hrs ago #142
Self-promotion, it looks like. Some of the headlines are so bad, I've noticed they are not even Nixie 7 hrs ago #144
Far as I can tell the only mention of Democrats is the "both sides controlled by oligarchs" one. betsuni 4 hrs ago #149
I'll vote for candidate who most closely aligns to my vision and values Torchlight 22 hrs ago #122
Transgender men competing in women's sports was reverberating everywhere before the Nov election. Omnipresent 21 hrs ago #132
Yes. There are still idiot Palestinian protestors protesting Democrats, travelingthrulife 21 hrs ago #134
100% this uponit7771 4 hrs ago #148
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