Some advice, please, from Wiccans on honoring a departed friend
First off, I am an atheist by way of Catholicism (Irish, so it left a mark). I say this not to provoke anything, but simply to be honest about own lack of expertise. My friend, who I have known since 1979, died suddenly last month, and I wish to honor her memory.
She was a Wiccan, but came from a fundamentalist family who are insisting on Christian rites for her memorial service (delayed until October due to circumstances). I know she would have wanted Wiccan rights, so I wish to honor her desire and have made a place for her in a memorial garden I made for lost friends. She will be the first person whose picture will be placed in the garden (printed on aluminum), but others will follow, of different faiths.
I have a small statue of the the three aspects of The Goddess for her section, and I am trying get a brazier she used in her annual Bridging ceremony to place with her picture. Is there something else I need to do?
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I think your statue of the three aspects of the Goddess (Maiden, Mother and Crone) is a lovely and appropriate tribute. Did your friend have an affinity for plant magic? Maybe a thyme plant? Or, did she use natural stones in her practice? Keeping her alive in your memory is a powerful remembrance. Your garden is beautiful.
Absolutely soul felt and beautiful.
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